2012-02-10, 04:46 PM
KhainiWest Wrote:There is no difference because they are equally as spiteful, one is just more specific, or rather, that the intention is equally as spiteful.
You say that as if it isn't a parents obligation to do that until they are 18, minus the internet. To be honest if you look at it on the other side, he sounds ungrateful for all the stuff she does do. Notice how what her chores listed, not one of them was "pour me coffee". He believes that her responsibilities require to get up and get on the bus, sound's pretty underminding her day considering teachers act like parents and having 9-10 of them a day takes a toll. It seems he hasn't come to terms with our generation being the consequence of his generations irresponsibility.
People need a social structure, that's a common thing any psychologist major will tell you, because they need support and understanding outside of their family. Facebook is simply a method to reach out to the social infrastructure. The stuff she said in her post was just words, and that's how they should be taken at that age. His actions only burn the bridge of compromise as a responsible parent would have spoken with her about it, telling her "don't do it again" isn't talking it's demanding.
She could just as easily if she had the intention to find it. It wasn't met for her dad to see it either.
I guess my parents are just more civil and logical about problems than incidents like this, which could be resolved pretty easily by just talking it out.
There is a difference which one would get you in trouble, the I cant stand you or the I wont be their to wipe your ass when you get old.
You act as though their doing the bare minium or something it seems like she has all of her needs and almost all of her wants fulfilled. Her complaining about her having to get him some coffee( haven't your parents asked you to do something even though their like 2 steps away from doing it themselves) its not a big deal and I doubt she was yelled and screamed out or belittled if she didn't do it. Parents are obligated by law to do the bear minimum hell if that was the case she would never have the laptop in the first place since shes never had a job and the money she gather was probably from birthdays, Christmas and allowance. Aside from the chores her only responsibility was to go to school and do well and the chores she was doing don't seem like much since they do have a cleaning lady. So I have to ask what the hell is she really complaining about?
You seem to be forgetting they already had the talking it out phase the LAST time she did it and he WARNED her of what the punishment was if it was done again. She did it again this is the punishment. He tried talking it didn't work. So unless you want him to get down on his knees and say " Sweety please don't post hateful things about us on your facebook pages for all your friends to see pretty please." Maybe you were just one of those kids who did what your parents asked they tell you to don't do something again you didn't do it again. She isn't one of em and most kids or teenagers aren't
Next time post your rant on facebook not a maplestory fourm. I'm sure she'll give you crap for it or just do the same to you on her facebook.
I think all parents would do a variant of this they probably wouldn't put it online for the world to see. It all ends up the same way the girl is out a laptop.
@below he did that the first time she did this they took away the laptop phone no facebook grounded the works. She did it again apparently the punishment didn't work so another type had to be administered. Guess he wanted it to really hit home with her and shot it instead of just taking it away. I bet she'll find another way to vent he anger hopefully a more constrictive way vent on a social media site isn't the best way to do accessibly when your saying things like that.
We all get angry at our parents but I doubt hardly anyone does it where your parents can find it.
lol yea never post rants to facebook it might end up on your dog's facebook page which is how her father even found it in the first place. Make sure to friend your pets before you vent. Source: http://www.facebook.com/tommyjordaniii