2011-12-05, 02:38 PM
KhainiWest Wrote:Speak for yourself douche
This. Also, Corn, I think the real issue here is also you saying "that would kill for a chance for a girl to ask us out." Here's a concept: grow a pair and do the asking. You might be surprised. Like VirgilDiablo said, it's all about confidence. All this being said it's definitely easier said than done, and I know I myself have had to build up the confidence on more than one occasion, but the result has always left me feeling better, even if it ends in rejection.
But the true key for holistic, honest confidence? Be happy and proud to be you. Sure, you may have some reasonable things you'd like to change about yourself (ex. not plastic surgery, but, using myself as an example, wanting to be more fit and toned, and at a deeper level, truly expressing myself when I feel and want to 100% of the time instead of just most of the time), but in the end find the joy in being you and everything will fall into place.