2011-12-01, 09:54 AM
Sarah Wrote:Didn't you post an angry dome thread about your teeth rotting out of your mouth? Pretty sure that's your problem.
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If I would say what I want to say, it would be my last day on these forums.
I've never said my teeth are "rotting out of my mouth". I said I had tooth decay due to drinking too much soda. A normal person couldn't even notice this. I'm not quite sure what you got against me but considering you haven't posted your picture here, who are you to insult others? Neither have I and therefore you don't even know what I look like. So maybe you should change "Argues with morons" to "Moron who argues".
Corn Wrote:He also posted one of these threads before I believe.
Wrong again.
Back to topic:
aslemn Wrote:Well, you can't really be like that, man. There's no perfect person for you, someone without anything wrong. And if you keep trying to find someone like that, you gotta be alone for a very long time.
It sometimes work like this, you try to find the perfect girl for your whole life, and when you finally find it, who grants that she'll look at you in the same way?
And if she does, then you gotta be some lucky ass dude. You see a lot of couples that seem to be perfect to each other, but they aren't. Life's not about what i see a lot of girls in my class saying to each other, that they want a man that is lovely, mature, beautiful, nice, smart, and kind to her parents and that likes everything they do; there's no copy of yourself, or someone that fulfills all your wishes.
You just have to meet someone, that like EVERYONE else, has flaws and qualities, but that her qualities are enough to make her flaws look irrelevant. You can't erase those defects, nor ignore them or pretend they never existed, you just love her more than you hate her problems.
That's why so many relationships end, because once you are in one, you'll try to ignore all her problems, and if you don't fight back, after the effect goes away, those problems will be much bigger than they are.
I, actually, prefer to have female friends than girlfriends, because i'm not the kind of guy that texts her any and everytime with a lovely message, that says i love you about a thousand times, that can give priority to her over getting out with my friends, for calling her, or for living my life towards someone. If you want an advice, NEVER date a friend if you don't feel anything other than just friendship for her.
My last relationship was a complete piece of crap because of that and because of the other reasons i've said above. She expected me to be someone that i am not, she always came up with a different voice to me, saying i love you everytime, calling me and getting mad when i didn't answer her, when i didn't text her back. She once got mad because two weeks before, my brother's friends that are also mine, were asked to come over our house to play some Rock Band, i've told her about it, she wanted to go to the mall with me and i told her i couldn't, she said there was no problem, later, she came to me acting weird and not answering properly, and when asked, she said "I didn't like the fact they are more important than me".
I've broke up in that day exactly because of that, it's not that she was less important, but there's no reason i would cancel everything that i've planned since two weeks before, because in that morning, she wanted to do something different. I couldn't stand those things that she has done, how she acted, and specially how she DIDN'T know me, because expecting me to change into another person was NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.
TL; DR That's it. You won't find someone that is perfect to you and that has no flaws, you have to find someone that completes you, and that has enough qualities to make her flaws smaller than what you feel for her. If you want a perfect girl in just the appearences, then you aren't looking for a girlfriend. And if you can't get in a relationship, or just don't want one of those, like me, you can just have your female friends.
I prefer to have them for many reasons, for the fact that i'm not obligated to act differently, that i just need to be who i am to them.
And man, having them as your friends doesn't mean you can't have something with them, you can date them without being in a relationship, anything, you just need to find someone that also wants that, and it's not as hard as finding someone perfect. You can just have anything you want, just don't judge them so early like that.
But if you really want to have a relationship, then judging the others with so much criteria is not going to lead you anywhere.
When I said I like slim(but not bony) and feminine (but this more of a personality thing) girls with brown/black eyes and hair I doubt that really is the definition of a "perfect girl". Like someone here said, if I moved to an another country there would be tons of people to fit my criteria, no? Say East Asia, South Europe etc. And I wouldn't date with a visually "perfect" woman who's crap from the inside. Personality IS my top priority, I'm just picky on the cover as well.
Blake Wrote:Oh, and brush your god damn teeth.I do, twise a day. I also use dental floss, moutwash and xylitol after eating. Like I said, don't believe what Sarah says I've said, she really hates me for some reason and tries to find the stupidest reasons to mock or provoke me for.

