2011-11-30, 05:15 PM
I am sort of like you. I've set my standards a bit unrealistically high and I'm aware of it. However I have no plans to lower it just so I can find someone.
Honestly if you feel the girls you like are way out of your league, confidence is your key to victory. I hate to say it because I lack confidence on first encounters and it takes me a while to open up to people, but seriously being confident while not being a douchebag (if you know what I mean; cocky guys who are arrogant and girls mistake this for confidence hence why you see girls going after douchebags so often) will definitely get you somewhere with someone.
And I know you and some other people are all ANTIDRINKING ALCOHOL IS FOR THE DEVIL but I'm not going to lie here, alcohol is a great social lubricant and gives you confidence to not give a pomegranate and just go up to someone and strike up a conversation. It helps, just don't drink too much obviously.
...Okay if this is true, hygiene should be your top priority if you're hoping to attract someone. Shower, brush your teeth, wear deodorant. I think I remember a thread on people saying they'd go a couple days without showering and then go out in public, so...
Honestly if you feel the girls you like are way out of your league, confidence is your key to victory. I hate to say it because I lack confidence on first encounters and it takes me a while to open up to people, but seriously being confident while not being a douchebag (if you know what I mean; cocky guys who are arrogant and girls mistake this for confidence hence why you see girls going after douchebags so often) will definitely get you somewhere with someone.
And I know you and some other people are all ANTIDRINKING ALCOHOL IS FOR THE DEVIL but I'm not going to lie here, alcohol is a great social lubricant and gives you confidence to not give a pomegranate and just go up to someone and strike up a conversation. It helps, just don't drink too much obviously.
Sarah Wrote:Didn't you post an angry dome thread about your teeth rotting out of your mouth? Pretty sure that's your problem.
...Okay if this is true, hygiene should be your top priority if you're hoping to attract someone. Shower, brush your teeth, wear deodorant. I think I remember a thread on people saying they'd go a couple days without showering and then go out in public, so...