Too shallow to get a girlfriend?

So there's my problem, lower apples taste bad and apples at the top seem to be out of my league and even if I tried to climb up there and pick those up, I'm sure I would fall down, break my leg and make a fool of myself. Besides, I bet pretty much all the hot girls are already dating.

Not saying it's easy, but this might be part of the problem. Also I am sure this will sound corny in some respect. Nobody is perfect, but fear of failure should not keep you from trying. You shouldn't care what others think because more than half the time, they are so worried about themselves that they won't care to think about you in a negative light. Lowering your standards could help, but I understand that most people don't want to do that. I can see your point though that all the good looking girls have boyfriends, but I guess that is because they are the good looking ones... eventually they will break up and be back on the market, hopefully...

Anyways, if you keep trying you will succeed at some point. At least from my P.O.V. I don't see many 40 year old virgins around so I think eventually everyone does something right and finds that person. I've been single since junior summer of highschool, almost 3 years now and I'll admit it kind of sucks (I am also a skinny white guy, so yay for having stuff in common). Keep trying, there are lots of fish in the sea.

Edit: just google imaged finnish girls and GOD DAM SON. If everyone in your country looks like that, there is no hope for you xD