A Gay Question

Hmm, I guess everyone likes to have someone they can "lean on"? At least that's my guess as to what you meant with masculine personality. I'd say that the best couples are able to swap gender "roles" as needed or wanted and can effectively be what their partner needs at different times. Sometimes a person needs to feel relied on, sometimes they need to have someone to rely on, sometimes you want to be in the arms of the one you love, sometimes you want to hold the person you love, etc. <.< Hmm, dunno if that really answered things, but whatever.