2011-05-22, 10:57 AM
Op asked "What do you think of a girl who loves 2 guys at the same time?"
Would "What do you think of a person who loves 2 people at the same time?" be a better answer ?
feelings are not gender specific...
I see relationship as a commitment between the parties that are in that relationship. That could be relationship of a friendship between two or more people, could be two people in love, could be a married couple, etc..
There are alot of things contributing to why people react to certain ways. There are alot of scenairos that could be leading up to it ?
Say if a married couple was in trouble and say one of them decides to engage in a relationship with another. Then that's seen as an affair ?
How about two lover and they find themselves in abit of a rift and one of them engage in another relationship with third party ? would that be acceptable ?
This also matters on prespective, what we see as acceptable and what's not.
Personally if someone is in a relationship they should respect each other's wishes. Why else would you put yourself in a relationship in the first place ? This is provided both parties in equal footing. I say that because you find that in some relationship one party commit but the other does not. like some suggested above that one party is stringing alone the second party.
So my answer is that if you don't feel you love the person and you have no way of resolving the rift by any means possible then let them go instead of having feelings for two people at once.... Don't end up hurting yourself and those involved.
Would "What do you think of a person who loves 2 people at the same time?" be a better answer ?
feelings are not gender specific...
I see relationship as a commitment between the parties that are in that relationship. That could be relationship of a friendship between two or more people, could be two people in love, could be a married couple, etc..
There are alot of things contributing to why people react to certain ways. There are alot of scenairos that could be leading up to it ?
Say if a married couple was in trouble and say one of them decides to engage in a relationship with another. Then that's seen as an affair ?
How about two lover and they find themselves in abit of a rift and one of them engage in another relationship with third party ? would that be acceptable ?
This also matters on prespective, what we see as acceptable and what's not.
Personally if someone is in a relationship they should respect each other's wishes. Why else would you put yourself in a relationship in the first place ? This is provided both parties in equal footing. I say that because you find that in some relationship one party commit but the other does not. like some suggested above that one party is stringing alone the second party.
So my answer is that if you don't feel you love the person and you have no way of resolving the rift by any means possible then let them go instead of having feelings for two people at once.... Don't end up hurting yourself and those involved.