2011-02-09, 10:31 PM
From some of the girls/women I've spoken to they say that they actually don't expect/want anything for ''special'' holidays if they've only been with the person for a very short period of time. They say it's because they feel like the gift isn't sincere enough or that it feels sort of like trying to rush the relationship.
Also, another thing to remember is that it's hard to ''go back'' if you've started a relationship ''strongly''; like expensive dinners, gifts, etc. This sometimes makes the person -expect- to get these things very frequently, so if for some reason you can't keep offering these things they might take it as you not loving them anymore, or maybe just less, or even cheating, etc. Start slow, with small but still meaningful things.
As far as asking her out, just approach it calmly and try and be polite of course. Maybe something along the lines of, ''Um [insert name], I was wondering if you'd like to go on a date with me [insert some kind of date, or time, etc]?'' Probably a bad example, but since I don't know the kind of person you or she is then it's hard for me to give a better example.
I hope that helps.
Also, another thing to remember is that it's hard to ''go back'' if you've started a relationship ''strongly''; like expensive dinners, gifts, etc. This sometimes makes the person -expect- to get these things very frequently, so if for some reason you can't keep offering these things they might take it as you not loving them anymore, or maybe just less, or even cheating, etc. Start slow, with small but still meaningful things.
As far as asking her out, just approach it calmly and try and be polite of course. Maybe something along the lines of, ''Um [insert name], I was wondering if you'd like to go on a date with me [insert some kind of date, or time, etc]?'' Probably a bad example, but since I don't know the kind of person you or she is then it's hard for me to give a better example.
I hope that helps.