Against all odds?

I didn't know where to post this but I wanted to tell people a story.

Three years ago I met a wonderful beautiful girl and she is everything I was looking for. There was only one problem..we lived at least 1k miles away. Her in Phili, me in New Orleans. Well that's a problem isn't it..well, that didn't stop us, not at all. To us that was just more of an ambition to try much harder. We talk everyday, literally all day. We had our bumps like every couple except ours seemed a little harder to work out without being able to talk face to face in person together about it. But again, that didn't stop us. We're very happy together and try to do EVERYTHING together. Me teaching her Pokemon and Yu-gi-oh, her teaching me about making tie dye shirts, and telling me about other things she enjoys making. We try not to let anything stop us from doing things. Well as happy as we were, we weren't. Why? Simple, we couldn't hug, kiss, and go on dates like a "normal" couple would(we both aren't "normal" so it fit).

This week however, we finally met up after 3 years and had to BEST time of our entire lives. Finding out we're in love more then we originally were led to believe. We're both so happy with each other and so comfortable and it's just amazing. Right now I feel like there is NOTHING that could make me sad. Well that's not the other exciting news. After both talking to each other, we decided mutually to go steady with each other, and even get engaged. Yes I got her a ring. We decided do get married in a few years but wanted to be fully committed to each other.

Some of you may be wondering why I'm writing this on SP, that I may just be tooting my own horn(our). Well no that's not the reason. I wanted to write this out to tell anyone here on SP, lurker or not, who reads this to say "it is possible." It is. I wrote this to say anyone who does have a online relationship to not give up. It's possible and in a way, it IS better. Maybe not for everyone but for us it was just so much easier once we finally met. I wish everyone who reads this and does have an online relationship good luck and not lose hope that it won't work. It will, it will you just gotta try harder.

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you posted this in shenanigans not me

I just found out a day ago me and my own girlfriend can't meet after about 9 months. There's no place to stay for me over there. A motel/hotel is way to expensive for me. And staying at her house is out of the question. I'm lost... Im talking to her right now but I feel extremely depressed and feel like crying honestly... I need this to work out so bad... I really dont know what to do anymore T^T....

But i'm happy that it worked out for you man.
I'm seriously so happy for you... :L

Happy for you and all, but.... sounds like you're rushing it. Just my two cents. inb4 sarah pomegranatestorm

Edit: Also wtp more Susan, Ray?

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you posted this in shenanigans not me

Yarp. Couldn't think where else to put it, so I know I'm asking for it.

I just found out a day ago me and my own girlfriend can't meet after about 9 months. There's no place to stay for me over there. A motel/hotel is way to expensive for me. And staying at her house is out of the question. I'm lost... Im talking to her right now but I feel extremely depressed and feel like crying honestly... I need this to work out so bad... I really dont know what to do anymore T^T....

But i'm happy that it worked out for you man.
I'm seriously so happy for you... :L

Wow man that really does suck. Truely. I feel really bad it's like that for you, I mean you can try and save up money as best you can. Hope it all works for you would love to hear how that goes.

Happy for you and all, but.... sounds like you're rushing it. Just my two cents. inb4 sarah pomegranatestorm

Edit: Also wtp more Susan, Ray?

It's easy to see where people would think that. Then again at the same time it HAS been three years and we're both fully committed without a doubt.

Happy for you and all, but.... sounds like you're rushing it. Just my two cents. inb4 sarah shitstorm

You have no idea how good you get to know eachother because of an online relationship. Its so... different.. you'd have to experience it to understand I guess.
I know this sounds extremely stupid but its how it is.

You have no idea how good you get to know eachother because of an online relationship. Its so... different.. you'd have to experience it to understand I guess.
I know this sounds extremely stupid but its how it is.

I have experienced it and I know what you're trying to say, but pomegranate's a lot more complex than that. Things could go completely ass backwards from here for him, and he doesn't even know it.

speakeasy would have been good i guess, or a blog?

I have experienced it and I know what you're trying to say, but pomegranate's a lot more complex than that. Things could go completely ass backwards from here for him, and he doesn't even know it.

Course it can. You can run that risk with almost anything you do relationship wise. Thing is, what usually sets a successful couple apart from those who fail is how problems are handled, and how truthful you are with each other. That's the thing we're both a little insecure and we go through almost every step to prove to the other there's nothing to be afraid about. Taking videos of where we are, going on webcam often, showing each other our phones, having all our info's to each others accs etc. Plus neither of us go out to dances or parties or hardly any social gatherings we just hate it>.>. We would only go to one if we were both going.

Congratz, you met once, now what?

Congratz, you met once, now what?

Wasn't just a 1 day couple hour thing. It was multiple days we were together, early morning to late at night. What do we do now? Get together again, work on a permenate solution, move forward. Simple as that.

>Implying love is real.

rofl.

I won't rain on your parade, in fact, if you think it's that easy all you're doing is disappointing yourself.

I won't rain on your parade, in fact, if you think it's that easy all you're doing is disappointing yourself.

Never will be easy. On paper it looks easy, however in reality it's nothing but hard. A relationship, love, all of it is nothing but difficult. Again, it's those who don't give up are the ones who end up together in the end.

>Implying love is real.

rofl.

not our problem you can't handle 3d women mark

Congratz to you man. Wish mine had/(will? maybe i'm being too hopeful at this point.) turned out like yours did

Never will be easy. On paper it looks easy, however in reality it's nothing but hard. A relationship, love, all of it is nothing but difficult. Again, it's those who don't give up are the ones who end up together in the end.

I'm in a successful long distance relationship across the pond, if you want tips feel free to ask.

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One day, Baklava.

not our problem you can't handle 3d women mark

How did you come to that conclusion?