How would one accidentally invite someone to a wedding?

So here's the story. I was recently invited to come to a wedding of an old high school friend. I've also been hanging out with a chick. Yeah, I'm sure you know where this is going. I wanna invite her to come along to the wedding. It would be like a date but not a date (since the food would be free provided and there would be less obligation so it would just seem like just hanging out at a party).

Seem easy enough eh. The thing is, I've only known her for about a month and a week. We're just friends and not that close. Unlike a date, a wedding is very personal so inviting a friend you don't know too well to a wedding seems like it would things uncomfortable for her. Does she like me? I don't know. There's a chance that she might, there's a chance she might not but I have a feeling the answer is isn't a total "no" (but I'd hate to jump to the conclusion it's a total "yes").

So now my plan is to "accidentally purposely" invite her because in this early of a friendship, she might say no. I was thinking of just a friendly chat about how a friend of mine is getting hitched then maybe slowly guide the conversation to an invite. From there, maybe accidentally slipping up or even jokingly ask? I'm a little stumped on ideas here.

So now my plan is to "accidentally purposely" invite her because in this early of a friendship, she might say no. I was thinking of just a friendly chat about how a friend of mine is getting hitched then maybe slowly guide the conversation to an invite. From there, maybe accidentally slipping up or even jokingly ask? I'm a little stumped on ideas here.

That's basically the best way to go about it.

So now my plan is to "accidentally purposely" invite her because in this early of a friendship, she might say no. I was thinking of just a friendly chat about how a friend of mine is getting hitched then maybe slowly guide the conversation to an invite. From there, maybe accidentally slipping up or even jokingly ask? I'm a little stumped on ideas here.

That's basically the best way to go about it.

Any suggestions on wording it? A plan is only as good as how it's executed.

Well, just make some casual conversation about it first then move the conversation to what she thinks about being going to weddings (unless she tells you what she thinks about it first) depending on what she says if you get a good feeling from it ask her joining you "accidentally".

Also if she's the type that likes to make fun of weddings you could always "accidentally" ask her if she wants to make fun of it with you.


Sorry if this didn't help with the wording you're looking for.