Let me explain to you kiddies why the "assholes" always get the hot chicks.

in high school and college relationships are different. Girls see themselves as thru other peoples eyes. Thats why they care so much about their appearance, what purse they have shoes to put on what accessories would be appropriate for the evening, etc. Boys are just like accessories, do they want a nice guy as a bf in High school? Depends really on the girl. If shes in to assholes you really think that 'hot chick' would be a good gf in the first place? take it from me, the anonymous dude from connecticut whose had the same first gf since hs for 4.5 years... ( yeh yeh ). Its not about looks, its about how she treats you. Dont EVER let her make you do pumpernickel you dont want to do unless theres good reason for it. If she thinks she has control over the relationship she may walk all over you. But in my case, i got lucky.

best idea ever: be yourself.

as corny as it sounds, it's the truth.

i'm a nice guy (maybe not as nice as you described) and i still get women. however, i have my pimento moments and that can't be helped. i don't get more women because ( and this has been confirmed by more than 10 girls) i'm usually an pimento on first sight. i only show the nice qualities after a while.

although, my definition of being an pimento might be different than what's being discussed here. i'm an pimento because: i'm not really social, i don't walk around saying hi to people i don't know, i don't usually smile back like an idiot to people and (this one has gotten me a couple of stupid fights) i'm usually the guy that asks "why the pineapple are you looking at me like i owe you something?"

but being yourself is always good, if a girl is going to like you, she'll like you anyways. women usually find unusual things on you to get attracted to you.

Girls want a guy they think they have to "tame" and they think will "change" for them, you know? Like if he cheated on someone in the past, oh, it's okay, he won't cheat on you. I realize that seems like BS (I've only ever dated one guy who had cheated on a girl, and uhh, I was the girl he cheated for...) but it's true, girls really want the challenge. They want to know that they were important enough to dominate over the popular, charismatic, forward nice guy who thinks they are everything.

I tell you, it's sappy teenage romance that does this!! These guys DO exist, there is just always one or two qualities (uhm, sometimes the "I am hungry for sex!" quality) that makes them imperfect.

I think the question is, "Why do attractive girls always go for *attractive boys*?" I have seen plenty of cases where the extremely hot girl goes for the extremely NICE hot boy. This almost feels like more of a complaint: Why do the hot girls not go for the average/less so boys??

This almost feels like more of a complaint: Why do the hot girls not go for the average/less so boys??

women with good looks get put on a pedestal too often and idiots drool about them without even an effort to cover it up. so they go for the "poster boy" ideal they have.

This almost feels like more of a complaint: Why do the hot girls not go for the average/less so boys??

Because they're hot. Beautiful women can get good-looking guys. Looks ARE important to people. Especially the snobby bitches. Why would they settle for an average Joe when they can have a Brad Pitt?

Because they're hot. Beautiful women can get good-looking guys. Looks ARE important to people. Especially the snobby bitches. Why would they settle for an average Joe when they can have a Brad Pitt?

*Writes down "Why would they settle for an average Joe when they can have a Brad Pitt" in book"

Yes yes.. good quote.

Yea but just beacuse they are "Brad Pitt" doesn't mean they have a good personality or even have a brain lol.

pineapple off, Mark. You hear me?

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Why would they settle for an average Joe when they can have a Brad Pitt?

Because Brad Pit may have aids from all the times he cheated on his previous girlfriends without a condom, also making him a father of 5 kids with 5 different mothers, while the average Joe does not have those attributes?

@ the TS: Your first post is off a bit.

You don't have to be an pimento at all. In a sense, you kind of do, but not to the girl. Appear that way on the outside, but keep some sensitivity when you're alone. I don't know about some people here, but I'm a white guy and my girlfriend is Asian and I guess you're right, I didn't get here or stay here by just being nice to everyone all the time, but I was never an pimento to HER. To make this relevant, I wasn't the only guy in the picture.

Just my two cents.

Because they're hot. Beautiful women can get good-looking guys. Looks ARE important to people. Especially the snobby bitches. Why would they settle for an average Joe when they can have a Brad Pitt?

I think that's a bit off. Modern girls mostly have a bit more of a realistic expectation now. That is to say, they KNOW that chasing after hot guys is dumb -- and its usually because half the time, they're not worth the effort. We know that the hot guy is used to being under the attention of many girls. He's most likely got an ego big enough that you end up becoming some random hot chick that he drags around to show off as his prize rather than his girlfriend. Guess what happens when a hotter chick drops on by? To him, we're just a new trend. Once we get old, it gets boring and we're tossed away like a shoe. This applies girls as much as it does guys. Some girls just dump as they go when they find prettier prizes.

The average joe on the other hand, hasn't been showered with that much attention to inflate his ego to that point. And since he isn't used to being paid so much attention from a girl, he'll most likely treasure her and be willing to pay more attention to a girl's needs.

tl;dr: You have to have lost before you understand its value. You don't know value if it's always handed to you on buncha silver platter, served, and ready to go.

To be perfectly honest, girls have started to flirt with me much more often now that I'm the "sarcastic jackass" as opposed to back when I was the cute nice boy with the compliments. I'm never serious about it; I always say "JUST KIDDING!!" and so on, but for some reason girls always love the guy who's a jerk.


Looks aren't always prominent either (they are a lot of the time, but not all the time), I've seen plenty of girls go for the ugly jackasses as well. For example, one of my ex's is with a guy who's cheated on her for a grand total of seven times with seven different girls (could be more), she even KNOWS that he's done it, but she refuses to leave him for god knows what reason. He verbally harasses her constantly as well.

Then again.. she could be just an idiot.

To be perfectly honest, girls have started to flirt with me much more often now that I'm the "sarcastic jackass" as opposed to back when I was the cute nice boy with the compliments. I'm never serious about it; I always say "JUST KIDDING!!" and so on, but for some reason girls always love the guy who's a jerk.

Ah my friend used to date someone like that, except he never said just kidding. It worked for a bit but then like, he was sarcastic for EVERYTHING and it got really annoying.

I don't know why everyone doesn't think a hot chick wouldn't always go after a hot guy. It happens all the time. A gorgeous girl is SERIOUSLY not going to waste her time on some average guy. Problem is, most good-looking guys are assholes, pricks, douches...and we go back to my main post.

pineapple off, Mark. You hear me?

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ily, baby.

I don't know why everyone doesn't think a hot chick wouldn't always go after a hot guy. It happens all the time. A gorgeous girl is SERIOUSLY not going to waste her time on some average guy. Problem is, most good-looking guys are assholes, pricks, douches...and we go back to my main post.



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what about golddiggers ^-^

I don't know why everyone doesn't think a hot chick wouldn't always go after a hot guy. It happens all the time. A gorgeous girl is SERIOUSLY not going to waste her time on some average guy. Problem is, most good-looking guys are assholes, pricks, douches...and we go back to my main post.

in my experience, chicks today are less interested in looks. guys are more shallow than girls though. besides, looks are a matter of opinion. what you think what makes a guy "hot", a girl might find him revolting. its like if you talk to your guy-friends about chicks, and you point out a hot chick, they'll be like "wtp that aint hot" and they point out a hot chick, and you'd be like "wtp she ugly".

I'm not shallow enough to think that most every day women are "ugly."

I have a wide range of things that I find attractive in a woman. She can be tall, short, chubby, skinny. In fact, I prefer chubby chicks over thin. I like my women with meat on their bones.

I'm not shallow enough to think that most every day women are "ugly."

I have a wide range of things that I find attractive in a woman. She can be tall, short, chubby, skinny. In fact, I prefer chubby chicks over thin. I like my women with meat on their bones.

You are a very rare male then. Most guys want the "model" type. To bad, that's not realistic. I care about looks, but thats not whats number 1 to me. There is so much more to a person than looks.

conclusion: dont be an pimento, dont be a nice guy, be both.

p.s - it will also help alittle if you're hot and/or if you're rich.

You are a very rare male then. Most guys want the "model" type. To bad, that's not realistic. I care about looks, but thats not whats number 1 to me. There is so much more to a person than looks.

Really? I don't think it's all that rare. I mean, yeah, you have a lot of guys who talk crap about getting a model girl, but in all seriousness, I think a lot of guys are willing to date most girls if they strike him the right way (whatever that is..).