Are You A Virgin?

I've always been curious what % of the forum has gotten laid. I'm going to clear the insecurity issue by stating that I'm a virgin. I want to have sex before I turn 21 next month as I've only been curious about it forever. Like most people I want to do it with a significant other. Yet I don't have the time, patience, or resources to engage in a long-term relationship that I would be satisfied with. My dad and the older guys in his office make fun of me because I have yet to get laid which turns to ruin the initial conversation topic. I have been in several relationships before. The first one was in middle school where I went out with this girl who was on the cross-country team with me. We ended up writing letters to one another as we were to shy to express our feelings face to face. I eventually asked her to go out after three months and she said yes. We went on a couple of dates. After two weeks or so into the relationship she tried to kill herself.

Not to be deterred, my freshman year in high school I met this sort of attractive puerto rican girl in my pre-calculus class. I started talking to her and I found that she was completely into asian culture. Which seemed like an initial turn-off (I try to run away from being stereotyped as much as possible) but eventually was a real plus as we went to the city together and did stereotypical nerd stuff. After two years her sister ended up transferring to her school. Ends up that they are twin sisters but I was comfortable enough to know automatically which one was which. Her sister was loud, obnoxious, and a real tomboy. I ended up asking her out and we ended up dating. It didn't really work out because my parents refused to drive me anywhere. I broke up with her because the relationship wasn't going anywhere. We hung out but it was always with her twin sister in a threesome. I realized that the relationship would be way too awkward and she was using her twin as a security blanket. So I decided not to push things any further.

Age 19, turning 20 in June, I'm not a virgin since I was 17.

by the way you should move this to the speakeasy to get better answers.

Yes.

After page 3 the thread should be renamed "Are you a liar"


Also no, but it's difficult to get passed 16 as a female without putting out. At least for me it was. I'm a tramp.

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AAlso no, but it's difficult to get passed 16 as a female without putting out. At least for me it was. I'm a tramp.

Explain yourself. I don't see where you're going. [/color]

Age 19, turning 20 in June, I'm not a virgin since I was 17.

Jealous. I think I have this major insecurity problem where I tend to be too hesitant when I have the chance. For example at a party last year this one girl was bloody drunk and offering people body shots: people to drink alcohol off her belly button. She was hot. But I was major creeped. I think one of my friend's friend, this big dude from Villanova ended up doing her. But man, I don't think I could do something like that. I think that whoever I had sex with would be repulsed in the aftermath instead of being thankful.

TBH, i dont know what to say.
Once when i was younger (9) I was playing house with this other boy....
oh god i dont wanna go on.

21 in June, and dont rightly care about being a virgin.

Should be in Speakeasy, I agree. 21. Not a virgin at 20.

20, m, virgin, more interested in getting a girlfriend than getting laid.

Lifestyle: I don't want to deal with possible ramifications of sex.

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Jealous. I think I have this major insecurity problem where I tend to be too hesitant when I have the chance. For example at a party last year this one girl was bloody drunk and offering people body shots: people to drink alcohol off her belly button. She was hot. But I was major creeped. I think one of my friend's friend, this big dude from Villanova ended up doing her. But man, I don't think I could do something like that. I think that whoever I had sex with would be repulsed in the aftermath instead of being thankful.

I recall reading a passage from a book called Norwegian Wood, in which the protagonist said: ''I don't think anyone could be pleased getting up at 10 in the morning to find out you don't like who's laying beside you and hardly even knowing her name''.

Pretty much sums up what I think about your situation. I'm not a virgin, and I haven't slept with people other than my girlfriends. [/color]

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I recall reading a passage from a book called Norwegian Wood, in which the protagonist said: ''I don't think anyone could be pleased getting up at 10 in the morning to find out you don't like who's laying beside you and hardly even knowing her name''.

Pretty much sums up what I think about your situation. I'm not a virgin, and I haven't slept with people other than my girlfriends.

It's only fun with a significant other anyways. I slept with a 'date' once, and we didn't have sex. -shrug- So I agree on that. It'd be awkward if you didn't really know the other person well.

EDIT: Then again, I was like all drunk and shit, and she was pretty drunk too. We were just tired, period. Cuddling, no sex. ♥

Eighteen years old and am still a virgin. While I'm in no big hurry to get laid I'm not going to avoid it given the opportunity if it's with someone I truly care for. Not going to just go out and pineapple some random slut because she's pomegranate-faced and willing to put out. Just ain't me.

I'm like 14, so yeah, i'm obviously a virgin.

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I recall reading a passage from a book called Norwegian Wood, in which the protagonist said: ''I don't think anyone could be pleased getting up at 10 in the morning to find out you don't like who's laying beside you and hardly even knowing her name''.

Pretty much sums up what I think about your situation. I'm not a virgin, and I haven't slept with people other than my girlfriends. [/color]

I'm actually not that picky. There are tons of girls I really like. But the thing is that they tend to be tomboys and their close relationship to me is the result of them being familiar with all guys in general. For example I'm hanging out with this girl every Wednesday for a couple of hours after class. But the only reason why she's close and familiar with me is because that's how she is with all her guy-friends. I don't want to be that guy whose like, "Yeah I really like you." And the whole relationship turns awkward because I never had a chance to begin with in the first place.

After page 3 the thread should be renamed "Are you a liar"

Not everyone lies about their sexuality.

[COLOR="Magenta"]Blah, I'm not a virgin.
Lost it really young.

I really wish I was >;
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