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I think I went on a date...
#21
I'm sorry, but how does a 14 year-old know what gay is?

Isn't that way too early to be sure of your sexuality?
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#22
Mark Wrote:I'm sorry, but how does a 14 year-old know what gay is?

Isn't that way too early to be sure of your sexuality?

What age did you first start reacting to the idea of naked people and/or fantasizing?
It's not having what you want - It's wanting what you've got.
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#23
The question is, is that kid gay?
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#24
Mark Wrote:I'm sorry, but how does a 14 year-old know what gay is?

Isn't that way too early to be sure of your sexuality?

Weren't you interested in boobs, platypus and ass when you were 14? Clearly if he isn't and he's interested in dicks, he's gay. That's not really hard to understand.
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#25
No. I wasn't interested in nudity until I was 18. I'd appreciate it if you guys weren't so judgmental.
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#26
Mark Wrote:I'm sorry, but how does a 14 year-old know what gay is?

Isn't that way too early to be sure of your sexuality?

It doesn't hurt for him to experiment a bit to find out, does it? There are plenty of 14 year old dudes going out with girls, do you criticize them for going through with their straight relationship when they haven't fully developed sexually yet?

I understand where you're coming from. At that age, your hormones are raging and changing so much that you might just get attached to anyone who seems interesting. However, I do believe that it's not strange to act on such impulses. People usually end up leading to one way (or both) around this age, and usually stick to that direction as they go through puberty. By 14, I'm sure they'd have at least a vague understanding of what their orientation is.
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#27
Fiel Wrote:Tay is homosexual. This is not really a disputed fact.

I dispute this "fact".
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I have no evidence though.

Tay- I've been dating the same girl since I was 17 and she was 15 so its not a BIG difference in age.Glitter
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#28
Mark Wrote:I'm sorry, but how does a 14 year-old know what gay is?

Isn't that way too early to be sure of your sexuality?


I don't want to argue that, but in my own life I've known I was gay since I could function.

Trust me, he knows he's gay. This isn't some random fling, we've talked a long time and talked about this subject. I think I will go for it, I'm just so shy.
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#29
I better see a FB status update that you've scored.

Then I'll be proud of you Smile
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#30
Go ahead and do it. Just don't get too caught up. Things eventually end.
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#31
Katie Wrote:I better see a FB status update that you've scored.

Then I'll be proud of you Smile

I'll secretly do it. Sad
IF we do "date" we can't be really open about it. We could, but I don't want him to risk family issues.
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#32
It seems kind of important to know, and I haven't seen it mentioned, but is he gey too? Stunned
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#33
Hazzy Wrote:It seems kind of important to know, and I haven't seen it mentioned, but is he gey too? Stunned

Tay Wrote:Also, the big issue of being out.
We both aren't, and he really can't be with his family.
His mom is a korean hyperchristian that dominates his life.

I'm gonna take a wild guess and say yes.
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#34
Yes everyone, he is gay.
I thought I made it obvious, I'm not going to think I went on a date with some guy and him not be gay.
And the fact that we first met on a GayTeen forum, and then kept in touch on kMS and MSN.
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#35
Tay Wrote:Yes everyone, he is gay.
I thought I made it obvious, I'm not going to think I went on a date with some guy and him not be gay.
And the fact that we first met on a GayTeen forum, and then kept in touch on kMS and MSN.

underage b&

Humor aside, since you are pretty shy, I think it'd be a good "experience" for you to become more confident in yourself and to know what to look out for. Even if it doesn't work out, the experience you gain from it is usually all that matters in the end.

Also, pics nao?
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#36
awww, cute [: pursue! pursue!!
The age difference is acceptable in my eyes, and a good 30 min distance away isnt that bad! At least its not a looonng distance cross country thing. Hope you two keep in touch and keep the ball rolling! Blush
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#37
Okk,
Here's a pic of me (everyone knows me.>_>)
Oh, I'm stealing these from FB.

 Spoiler

Him;
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#38
I have a strong urge to let him know on EF forum via PM.
Since he posted that same pic in the pic thread, i can find out exactly who he is.
edit: pineapple, he never logs on there.
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#39
lolwat
Why wouldn't he know? O_O
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#40
Tay Wrote:lolwat
Why wouldn't he know? O_O
that's not what I meant, lol, i meant i was just gonna link him to this thread and enlighten him that you're rly worried about it, xd.
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