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Do Girls like Gay Guys as much as Guys like Gay Girls?
#21
Huggablehobo Wrote:negative. Girls like gay guys because they can help them with personal issues and can gossip and whatnot with them. they can be the "BFFL" type with them. every girl always dreams for a gay bestfriend.

on the other hand, guys dont like gay girls in that way. dont get me wrong, we like them alot too, just not as much as gay guys are to girls. cus we dont find lesbians being out "bestfriends", even though they could. but idk, thats just imo.

Guys don't want lesbian best friends. Close friends that are girls they hope will be attractive.

Who wants an attractive friend that they can never have because they like girls? No one.

And the thing is that men don't talk that much. There isn't much need to confide in the opposite sex.
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#22
I thought the question was obviously referring to watching gay porn of the opposite sex. Guys don't like lesbians because they're nice to confide in. >_>
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#23
The question was referring to sexual interest. I wouldn't call two girls making out on Youtube porn, but I would call it a sexual stimulus/interest.
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#24
Well, according to studies, women don't tend to get turned on as much by sexuality. So no, of course they do not in a sexual context.
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#25
Twilight fans beg to differ. So does that one girl who posted a bit up.
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#26
Hazzy Wrote:Twilight fans beg to differ. So does that one girl who posted a bit up.

Outliers. Just like I don't really like lesbian porn. I find it kind of boring.
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#27
TehMatt Wrote:Outliers. Just like I don't really like lesbian porn. I find it kind of boring.

This.

Female masterbation is pretty boring too.
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#28
this topic needs more Myles and females...
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#29
In this case it's very much a matter of different strokes for different folks. If you're referring to the "majority" then that's very hard to pin, and I've found it to actually be more common some places than others. For instance, for some reason I've noticed Florida has a lot of girls who are really into gay guys. However, it could just be a coincidence that every girl I know who's from Florida is like that.

Here in NY, there's a pretty big mix. There's quite a few who are into it, and others who simply find the thought disgusting.

FelixTM Wrote:Deep down, all women are bisexual. That is definitely the reason.
That's because of the double standards that exist. For instance, if two girls share a very intimate night with each other, and then after find out they didn't enjoy it as much, then it's okay. They can put it behind them and wouldn't be marked as "gay" by everyone because they didn't like it in the end and just stuck with dating guys.

However, if a guy were to try experimenting with an other guy, he's usually marked as gay for even thinking about doing so.

Because of this, guys are usually more distanced from their male friends than girls are with each other. Girls can kiss each other on the cheek freely as a greeting. Guys...er, not so much. People will often look at is as very gay for guys to do that, but think nothing at all for girls to do so.

Girls can refer to each other as "girlfriends". Guys don't usually say "me and my boyfriends were playing some Cawk of doodie last night!"

It's these double standards that make it seem as if lots of girls are bi deep inside. Really, it's more because society gives girls more freedom to show friendly love with each other.


Hazzy Wrote:Twilight fans beg to differ. So does that one girl who posted a bit up.

From what I've noticed, a lot of Twilight Teens who are into Edward don't seem to be horny over him, more just boycrazy. They're different, believe me. Though, I don't know what they do in the privacy of their own homes, so what you're saying may be true.
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#30
Spideyjvc Wrote:However, if a guy were to try experimenting with an other guy, he's usually marked as gay for even thinking about doing so.

You made me feel brainwashed because I do find it disgusting to even think about it in the slightest sense.
While most close girlfriend relationships would allow as little as light petting to be completely normal, which sparked an awesome idea in my head about getting it on with your close girlfriends as a girl but deep down you're still a guy and enjoying it the guy way (gender xformation potion?)
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#31
Women hardly like porn in the first place.

And, the girl's I've asked before said no, they have no interest in gay porn.
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#32
Absolutely no idea.. If I may say this, all the straight guys I know have usually been pretentious bastards only interested in a good eff..

Whilst the many gay guys I knew, would talk to me about proper things, rather then 'Yeh on the weekend I got drunk and started pissing on poles and stuff, Oh I wouldn't lean on that pole there when I need to pee I kinda just go whereever I want' <-- Yes I know a guy who does that to. It's disgusting, talks about sex, drugs, booze and making inappropriate comments around small children.

So yes I like gay guys more, because all the few I've met haven't been asses...

Though sometimes they aren't exactly brilliant either.
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#33
Great question. I know a lesbian irl, I also know a bi girl, and a ton of straight girls. I did have an attraction to the lesbian and the bi girl, once. They were cute. If I were to see two cute or hot girls making out, yes, I would instantly pop a boner.

As for girls, well, I wouldn't know how they'd react.
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#34
This thread makes me feel like I am gay because I don't fit into the typical male stereotype.
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#35
MetaSeraphim Wrote:This thread makes me feel like I am gay because I don't fit into the typical male stereotype.

Perfectly fine. I assure you, there are plenty of girls who don't fit the typical female stereotype.
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#36
Spideyjvc Wrote:Perfectly fine. I assure you, there are plenty of girls who don't fit the typical female stereotype.

There are a bunch of female stereotypes though. While men really only have two. Manly man and gay.
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#37
Girls like gay guys because gay guys act as friends to them while not targeting them on a sexual level, which for friendship is something that girls like.

Most lesbians I've met outright detest men and they support "women's rights," (in the "all men are rapists" sense,) but really they cut their hair and wear clothing typical of crude males, (mechanic's overall, wifebeater shirts etc.) and they are often very rude, confrontational and overall nasty.

I'd say gay men can be pretty nice and tolerable, but it's pretty rare to meet a pleasant lesbian. Women speak well of homosexual men, while men speak poorly of homosexual women. I am sure there are exceptions, but I think that's your answer right there.

MetaSeraphim Wrote:There are a bunch of female stereotypes though. While men really only have two. Manly man and gay.

There's other male stereotypes, though. Metrosexual and nerd/geek come readily to mind.
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#38
Quantact Wrote:Girls like gay guys because gay guys act as friends to them while not targeting them on a sexual level, which for friendship is something that girls like.

Most lesbians I've met outright detest men and they support "women's rights," (in the "all men are rapists" sense,) but really they cut their hair and wear clothing typical of crude males, (mechanic's overall, wifebeater shirts etc.) and they are often very rude, confrontational and overall nasty.

I'd say gay men can be pretty nice and tolerable, but it's pretty rare to meet a pleasant lesbian. Women speak well of homosexual men, while men speak poorly of homosexual women. I am sure there are exceptions, but I think that's your answer right there.



There's other male stereotypes, though. Metrosexual and nerd/geek come readily to mind.

Ugh. Feminist butch lesbians. God help us.

It should be said that the lesbians you see in porn probably aren't real lesbians and probably don't fall into Quantact's description.

Kay. I have yet to meet a real hot real lesbian, which is pretty thought provoking, given the nature of lesbians (E.g. "ugly" women are lesbian because the majority of men reject them.)
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#39
Quantact Wrote:There's other male stereotypes, though. Metrosexual and nerd/geek come readily to mind.

Metrosexual falls under gay.
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#40
MetaSeraphim Wrote:While men really only have two. Manly man and gay.

Hey, whoa... Whoa, wait. What? I am definitely not a manly man (FAR from it), but I am not gay. What AM I?
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