Girls

Can some one explain High School girls to me? Do they get better later?

Also how should you talk to and approach a girl? Is there a way to tell is they like me?

Any help would be nice, I'm a pretty shy person and don't talk very much but I really want some one that I can hug and feel close to.

Do they get better later?

If you're asking if they ever stop being two-faced, back-stabbing whores, then no. They don't. In fact, it usually gets worse.

However, girls really aren't that hard to talk to. You're just making a big deal out of it. If you have no romantic/sexual/whatever intentions (which, I fear, you do), it's just like talking to any other person. That's how I did it. Had many a nice chat with girls in my class. Start like that. If you get along well, then maybe you can try inching it closer to being a relationship.

If a girl is constantly trying to be with you or get your attention, etc, then that's probably a pretty good clue that she's interested in you. Otherwise, no, there is no way to tell. Girls are evil and will try to confuse you. Don't fall victim. It's best to assume they all hate you. It's safer.

I know you're thinking it would be nice to have a girl to spend time with, but you don't need one. Stop thinking that you do. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Don't stress yourself out if you never find someone in high school.

I'll take you advice but I just want some one to hug.

Or you could us one of my top notch pick-up lines.. =D Please refer to my previous threads.

On a more serious note, I'd recommand you start with shy quiet girls also. Going off big with the loud, annoying (lol look at the pot calling the kettle black), evil, groupie, flaming, wig wearing, no tooth hoes (sorry spazz) will only lead you into deeper depression and shyness of one self. So start off with someone below or around your level (think maple wise but not really cause this is real life bro) and steadily move upward.

Or... like what ^ said, just wait for the right girl, no need to rush- all of those High school relationships are fake as can be. JUST TO MAKE GROUPERSJEALOUS.

I'll have to agree with what Felix said. Girls who are bad in high school generally won't get any better, but there are also girls in high school who are nice, and will stay nice as they get older. As for talking to them, just relax and not worry about it. They're people, just like boys are. If you look at them as if they are people, rather than potential relationships, then you're going to feel a lot more comfortable around them. Don't let anyone make you think boys and girls can't be just friends. Also, once you are friends with a few more girls, and your confidence with them has grown, maybe you'll feel a lot more comfortable when you're talking to your future special someone =]

(Also, a hug doesn't have to mean anything. You can have friends that you hug all the time).

[SIZE="5"]If you're asking if they ever stop being two-faced, back-stabbing whores, then no. They don't. In fact, it usually gets worse.[/SIZE]

However, girls really aren't that hard to talk to. You're just making a big deal out of it. If you have no romantic/sexual/whatever intentions (which, I fear, you do), it's just like talking to any other person. That's how I did it. Had many a nice chat with girls in my class. Start like that. If you get along well, then maybe you can try inching it closer to being a relationship.

If a girl is constantly trying to be with you or get your attention, etc, then that's probably a pretty good clue that she's interested in you. Otherwise, no, there is no way to tell. Girls are evil and will try to confuse you. Don't fall victim. It's best to assume they all hate you. It's safer.

I know you're thinking it would be nice to have a girl to spend time with, but you don't need one. Stop thinking that you do. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Don't stress yourself out if you never find someone in high school.

I wasn't that kinda girl in highschool and never will be Don't generalize us all

Believe me, I can relate. I went through all of high school (heck, still do) wishing for a kind female to spend my days with. Someone who gets me and can comfort me with her warm chest. Never happened. I didn't get depressed. The longer you go without it, the easier it gets. Trust me. There's gonna be plenty of days where you feel like breaking down, but be strong. Or maybe you'll be nothing like me and life will give you a great girl to make you happy. Never know, so stay positive. Nobody likes a depressed person. Don't focus so much on it.

I'm fast approaching the iconic age of 21, and I have still never kissed or even held hands with a girl. For some reason, I still hold out hope. Maybe I should just break down, cry and give up on life. But I haven't, and I won't.

 @ Katie

If you're not like that, then there's no reason to feel offended. You shouldn't let generalizations bother you. I realize there's good girls out there.

Male Code #8:
Never leave a girl undone. =D j/k j/k j/k.. It's all about fun and extending your network.
Really girls are just like guys except they um... you know.

Just wait till college when they become less drama prone >.>

Is this an America-exclusive problem or something? I keep hearing about two-faced backstabbing women but I've yet to see any in my life (in H-S there weren't any I knew of)

I mean, we have our slutty girls but dutch girls aren't really as dramatic as what I hear from american girls

College parties are your friend. Plus not all colleges throw threats at them... like community colleges.

Just a side note since all the advice I was gonna give has been given.

Don't get surrounded by the wrong crowd of girls. It's gonna be overwhelming but just try and fight that feeling, cause you're gonna be a hell of a lot more saddened by how you get treated.

Okay thanks.

College parties are your friend

Especially when they are shitfaced, and you aren't

I don't like girls (or any kind of person actually) I meet at college parties, many of them seem very insecure

Just a side note since all the advice I was gonna give has been given.

Don't get surrounded by the wrong crowd of girls. It's gonna be overwhelming but just try and fight that feeling, cause you're gonna be a hell of a lot more saddened by how you get treated.

Wrong type of girl?

Wrong type of girl?

Yes, one who might use you because you are wealthy or have some sort of useful ability to help her succeed in getting what she wants

Yes, one who might use you because you are wealthy or have some sort of useful ability to help her succeed in getting what she wants

lulz, I'll avoid them and it would be funny if they did go for me I don't look like i have money at all and i barley have any skills

Yes, one who might use you because you are wealthy or have some sort of useful ability to help her succeed in getting what she wants

Oh my god, I got a real taste for that the other night and it sickened me. My brother broke it off with my really good friend a few months back and I was talking to her about getting back together with him the other night. She was contemplating it, but really not much since he treated her like pomegranate. But once she found out that he's got a good paying job in the military, she was talking about how she'd get him to buy her all kinds of stuff and how that's a big part of her decision now because he "owes" her for all the pomegranate and if he really wants her back, then monetary gifts would be an appropriate form of repayment.

We're all in college, btw.

Good friend points minus 10. That's a disgusting thought process and logic.

Good friend points minus 10. That's a disgusting thought process and logic.

Definitely, but sadly, I know way too many guys who do this too (maybe 79%+). It's just ridiculously depressing.

lulz, I'll avoid them and it would be funny if they did go for me I don't look like i have money at all and i barley have any skills

I'm sure you have something useful, even being desperate is good enough. I remember when I just wanted company, this girl only went out with me because her bf was gone (didn't know she had one). The second he came back, she was gone

Good thing too, I don't think I would've been happy at all in that relationship

You know what makes me happy, Death? The fact that I've also haven't really had anything either, but my girlfriend loves me nonetheless.

@Cynic: I dunno if any of my guy friends are like that. I don't wanna know.