How was your day?

Got an A on my E&M midterm and I couldn't even answer half of.

F'uck yeah public school!

This means I can potentially get a 4.0 this semester

Oh praise Michael Faraday!

OT: Had my end of semester review today with my SI Team Leader and Director, they are extremely pleased with me and do not want to lose me. My director, who I am also hopelessly in love with he is so adorable, used to work in admissions and has some connects to UT Austin so he's gonna see what's taking them so long to process my application. After I get a concrete decision, he's offered to sit down with me and plan out all the possible routes I have and which will be the most successful and viable to get me into a fantastic grad school. I'm aiming for Rice here in Texas, but I need to start investigating other choices as well. Found another outlet to make some extra cash as well, another coworker/friend's mom owns a craft shop that does very good business. They offered to let me sell some of my floral designs out of their shop, which I'm excited to try and partake in.

Disgonbegud

Apparently studying for 20% of my final grade in one of my classes isn't important as a visit to the store I work at is. So now my day off that was scheduled 2 weeks in advanced is now a non-negotiable cash shift after school tomorrow.

On the bright side I ordered an Umoro and it's expected to come on Friday.

Had dinner one on one with one of my friends. It was really nice, we talked good pomegranate about people haha.

There is also a debate (not the podium kind) going on regarding the Christian group on CSU campuses regarding their derecognition because they require leaders within the group to sign a form affirming their faith.

What I don't get, is how signing a piece of paper affirms their faith. Also, why is it a faith based group wont put more faith into the leaders they select for a student organization.

Such a great day! Advice here was kinda helpful and been sleping like a baby the last 2 days. In addition, I was finally able to see a doctor, got medical excuse for yesterday (missed work) and today. I was already feeling better this morning but another day to rest and get better? Yay I'm sure I'll be feeling perfect tomorrow.

My monitor came in yesterday! I'm just waiting on 3 more packages before I can put my pc together

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Also, I have 2 out of 4 of my final projects done and out of the way. Hoping to get most of one out of the way over the weekend.

Was texting the girl who came up to me that one time in math to ask for my number and it went from talking about how our business teachers are super different to

"we should chill one day after class"

aw pomegranate

(this is not what i wanted)

Things have been going great with my boyfriend, he was super romantic the last couple of weeks, and really sweet on tuesday/wednesday. He said I was the best guy he ever met and that he is really happy with me. I said I was really happy with him too.

The last 2 days he didn't talk to me much, and then this morning he sent me a message on facebook saying he wants to break up with me.

He didn't sugarcoat it at all. He's not feeling it, he never was. He just doesn't find me physically attractive but he "overlooked it" because we had a lot in common.


This came out of absolutely nowhere, and I was really happy and I just can't right now. It hasn't even sunk in yet, I only read it a few minutes ago.

EDIT: Yeah.. it's over.

@Razmos I'm sorry to hear that!

Today was rather tiring, even though I have not been doing much work today. (Also I had a random friend request for my battle-net account for Diablo 3.)

Things have been going great with my boyfriend, he was super romantic the last couple of weeks, and really sweet on tuesday/wednesday. He said I was the best guy he ever met and that he is really happy with me. I said I was really happy with him too.

The last 2 days he didn't talk to me much, and then this morning he sent me a message on facebook saying he wants to break up with me.

He didn't sugarcoat it at all. He's not feeling it, he never was. He just doesn't find me physically attractive but he "overlooked it" because we had a lot in common.


This came out of absolutely nowhere, and I was really happy and I just can't right now. It hasn't even sunk in yet, I only read it a few minutes ago.

EDIT: Yeah.. it's over.

Awww, sorry to hear that I can relate to that, except I've never dated.

Things have been going great with my boyfriend, he was super romantic the last couple of weeks, and really sweet on tuesday/wednesday. He said I was the best guy he ever met and that he is really happy with me. I said I was really happy with him too.

The last 2 days he didn't talk to me much, and then this morning he sent me a message on facebook saying he wants to break up with me.

He didn't sugarcoat it at all. He's not feeling it, he never was. He just doesn't find me physically attractive but he "overlooked it" because we had a lot in common.


This came out of absolutely nowhere, and I was really happy and I just can't right now. It hasn't even sunk in yet, I only read it a few minutes ago.

EDIT: Yeah.. it's over.

The same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago. I entirely feel your pain. It was insanely rough on me, and I took it very badly. Just keep your mind busy with video games (I played a LOT of league of legends to keep my mind off of it), or whatever else you'll enjoy. Look forward to the new Pokemon games coming out! Just know there's other guys (and gals) and that you'll find a better one. I went on a date with a guy tonight and things are really looking promising. Just keep your head up.

Thanks everyone, I appreciate the support

The same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago. I entirely feel your pain. It was insanely rough on me, and I took it very badly. Just keep your mind busy with video games (I played a LOT of league of legends to keep my mind off of it), or whatever else you'll enjoy. Look forward to the new Pokemon games coming out! Just know there's other guys (and gals) and that you'll find a better one. I went on a date with a guy tonight and things are really looking promising. Just keep your head up.

I messaged my best friend as soon as it happened, and he offered to come over straight away. It's impossible to feel sad playing Mario Kart. I would have been a wreck without him here.

The worst thing about the break up is that it wasn't just the relationship ending. The way he did it was incredibly brutal, he said he felt like he had been lying to me, that he hadn't really felt it all along and saying he wasn't attracted to me either..

He not only ended the relationship, but completely invalidated all the happy memories and all the nice things he said. There was no trace of caring there at all, no "I'm sorry", no "I hope your ok" or anything like that. It was just over.

I'm worried about my relationships in the future now. I thought things were perfect but apparently not. Made me feel crappy about myself too. He wasn't attracted to me but thought my personality could make up for it, but apparently not!

I'm surprised i'm not more devastated by all this. I guess I've developed a thick skin. Or I've just stopped caring.

I am so goddamn tired. I finished a ten page literature review last week, 10 people were predrinking at our place Wednesday night while I was studying for my audit midterm. One of my roommates drank a third of a bottle of whiskey, passed out on the couch, then threw up in his sleep on Thursday night while I was studying for my audit midterm. On Friday I had my audit midterm then I did the financials for my group's policy case. On Saturday I skimmed 75 pages of literature about income inequality and wrote a few sentences on them, now I'm touching up exhibits for my group's policy project, and tomorrow I'll be doing that since it's due Monday and my other group's managerial accounting case which is due Thursday. After that I have to write an annotated bibliography for another course, write 20 more pages to finish my undergraduate paper, do two more managerial accounting cases, and study for my finals of which I have 3 in 28 hours. It never ends, I've slept about 25 hours the past 6 days.

I'm worried about my relationships in the future now. I thought things were perfect but apparently not. Made me feel crappy about myself too. He wasn't attracted to me but thought my personality could make up for it, but apparently not!

I am in the same boat. When me and Quinn broke up (you might've seen him in some of the pictures of posted), he said some things that really hurt my self esteem. I'm seeing a new guy now, and I noticed my confidence is a lot worse than it used to be. Just know that you weren't right for him, and there are other people, better people. It might seem really bad, but it gets better... I was in the same situation recently. I told my friends I'd never love again lol. I was an emotional mess. Just be who you are, maybe some self improvement here and there like hitting the gym or something, but don't let anyone's rude words get to you. I know it's cliche, but it's the fucking truth. You're going to be perfect in someone's eyes, just not his.

One of my roommates drank a third of a bottle of whiskey, passed out on the couch, then threw up in his sleep on Thursday night

Fuckin' amateurs.

Things have been going great with my boyfriend, he was super romantic the last couple of weeks, and really sweet on tuesday/wednesday. He said I was the best guy he ever met and that he is really happy with me. I said I was really happy with him too.

The last 2 days he didn't talk to me much, and then this morning he sent me a message on facebook saying he wants to break up with me.

He didn't sugarcoat it at all. He's not feeling it, he never was. He just doesn't find me physically attractive but he "overlooked it" because we had a lot in common.


This came out of absolutely nowhere, and I was really happy and I just can't right now. It hasn't even sunk in yet, I only read it a few minutes ago.

EDIT: Yeah.. it's over.

This is pissing me off so much rn its literally like he forgot you had feelings and just fucking used you or something. what kind of shallow ass comment is 'i dont find you attractive but i'll overlook it'??????????

Bleh.

This is pissing me off so much rn its literally like he forgot you had feelings and just fucking used you or something. what kind of shallow ass comment is 'i dont find you attractive but i'll overlook it'??????????

Bleh.

Hard to tell without hearing the tone of voice, but he could have meant it as a kind of compliment, or softening the blow. As in "you have such an awesome personality that I really wanted to be with you, despite the lack of physical attraction".

Anyway, just in case you haven't heard enough cliche's, "you're better off without him".

Just know that you weren't right for him, and there are other people, better people. It might seem really bad, but it gets better...

This has pretty much been my mindset. Now that i've had a couple of days to mope, I can at least understand that the problem lies with him, not me. It's a small comfort, but it is helping.

You're going to be perfect in someone's eyes, just not his.

Seeing this really did make me feel a bit better. thanks

This is pissing me off so much rn its literally like he forgot you had feelings and just pineappleing used you or something. what kind of shallow ass comment is 'i dont find you attractive but i'll overlook it'??????????

Bleh.

Indeed, it was a bit messed up. The funny thing is, as much as he was a handsome guy.. he was fat, his body sucked, and he was not the kind of guy i'd usually go for, but I liked him anyway. It became pretty much a non-issue for me.
I was tempted to say that he wasn't exactly my ideal guy either when he broke up with me, but it would have felt like a petty jab if I did.

Hard to tell without hearing the tone of voice, but he could have meant it as a kind of compliment, or softening the blow. As in "you have such an awesome personality that I really wanted to be with you, despite the lack of physical attraction".

Anyway, just in case you haven't heard enough cliche's, "you're better off without him".

It didn't really come across that way the way he said it. He basically said that my personality wasn't good enough to make up for his lack of physical attraction to me, and that the lack of physical attraction became "central" to the problem. It was definitely pretty shallow.

But yeah, now that i'm over the worst of it i'm definitely seeing that it would have been worse had he continued to lie, so i'm definitely better off without him, even if it does sound cliche

Thanks for the support everyone, I love this forum.

i literally feel like he said 'um i mean we have some things in common but like, you're ugly so, i can't hande dis no more'

What a knobhead tbh. Much hugs Matt <3

[MENTION=5228]Razmos[/MENTION]; I'm not sure there's any such thing as a nice way to break up with someone, but that's definitely an pimento move. We all try to remember the good time even after a breakup and he tried to take that away which is just not cool. I think at this point you can write him off as a plantain that you're much better off without. It's good that you found out now and didn't have to spend any more time on him. Just think about what good karma you earned by holding your tongue and hope it will pay off when an actually nice guy comes around. You were the better man so major props even if he's to stupid to see it.

So I had date #2 last night and it went amazing! I was a bit nervous after the first one, but we talked non stop at dinner for about two hours about all sorts of things then saw Birdman. The movie itself was terrible, but we both got laughing just trying to figure out why it was so highly rated. We wandered around the then closed mall afterwards window shopping to keep things going despite the late hour and the chemistry really clicked. Oh and did I mention she looked amazing?

I like this girl so much more than I thought I would. We're different but have a lot in common at the same time which makes talking really interesting. There's sort of an expiration date on things since she'll be moving back home to LA after this quarter ends, but neither of us is worried about it and we're just enjoying the way things are going and spending time together. There will definitely be a 3rd date in the future.