hey guys

Idk, why this thread seems very familiar to my first couple(douchey-self admited) posts in southperry(very similiar anti-southperry), but things i have learned since those post.

1. Southperry isn't all that bad, the mods are laxer than most websites out there(although, sometimes ill have to admit, there are times I am like, why didn't this get infracted, but its not my place to judge)
2. Southperry, on the most part, isn't Tyrannical at all, sure there are moments, where people are asked to drop a subject but thats mainly because it is causing argumentation and people to get angry/flustered at other users for no real good reason.
3. Sure there are people we dont like on this website, but for the most part you can actually ignore there post by using the ignore user button in profiles and stuff
4. Southperry is very friendly and welcoming to all, even if sometimes it doesn't seem so. We are all humans, making mistakes, but most of south perry tries to correct any misunderstandings on the most part.
5. Trust me, you don't want to be on the receiving end of [MENTION=4235]KhainiWest[/MENTION] 'Lawyer smack down' i have been on a receiving end on one of these,(I've also manage to give one or two), but on the most part, when he does these, he actually has a very valid/reasonable point that he is trying to get across.

Also just to comment on the f'aggot/pappayagot stuff, I don't find the first word offensive. English language evolves, its fluid and is constantly changing. It no longer means in reference to homosexuals. The 2nd word though, pappayagot i find more offensive than the first, but it is actually referencing homosexuals.

Same way the word 'N'igger' went from Ignorant>Black people> And now people are trying to change it to a dumb/stupid person. It also has the varient to mean as good friend, maybe because we can only be dumb/stupid in front of our good friends without being judged harshly c:

[MENTION=13432]Psych[/MENTION]
[MENTION=13421]Dice Dragon[/MENTION]
[MENTION=13410]I NEED A HITTA[/MENTION]
[MENTION=13409]Hishotodo[/MENTION]

Sure call a dumb/ignorant person a n'igger in real life. I dare you and you'll probably stop spewing this garbage when you get punched in the face lmao. And the only form that is tolerated is n'igga but it's only tolerated in the black community to refer to each other because its meaning becomes moot. I don't know if you're only living on 4chan or something but in the real world, when someone says papayagot, they mean homosexual. You shoudn't be reclaiming homophobic slurs if you are straight. Like that's it? Are you really losing your rights by getting called out for using one word? You couldv'e said anything other than this one word. Really, you can all continue acting like redditards and 2007 /b/ in regards to these wordsds but you know irl you wouldnt use them because you'd look like an idiot and get your ass beat for it.

"Xdddddd gay people base their entire identity around being gay xdddddd
gays arent THAT discriminated anymore!!!!
why do u have to let everyone know ur gay???"

-White Straight CIS Male whose only problem is he's a poor college graduate

but whatever you already admitted you were trolling or at least attempting to

...I don't even know what's going on with this thread anymore.

"Xdddddd gay people base their entire identity around being gay xdddddd
gays arent THAT discriminated anymore!!!!
why do u have to let everyone know ur gay???"

-White Straight CIS Male whose only problem is he's a poor college graduate

but whatever you already admitted you were trolling

Oh I'm sorry, I guess I missed the memmo where your friend represented the entire homosexual community. Do you want a homosexual to tell you your perspective is ridiculous and thoroughly believes gay pride rallies are the most ridiculous sh`it ever? Note, his opinion note mine. [MENTION=2749]Rick[/MENTION];

You can let people know your gay, I don't care, but when you make your sexually your identity you're no better than my work mate who lets everyone know her son died and has breast cancer, without even asked for it. And lastly, if you want to an empower a word, fine I don't care but you aren't going to change the world by having an emotional breakdown anyone uses it, including when it's not in the context you're raving about.

Lastly, I'm not a poor college student, nice try though, anymore guesses on my lifestyle cus I could brag and make your entire genetic heritage feel pointless.

Except he probably isnt informed about the issues. If he bothered reading up on the purpose of those rallies he probably wouldn't be saying that. Sexuality is one ofthe biggest parts of an identity like you won't understand because you are the "average" You can keep blaming the victim but it really isn't the gsrm community it's people like you who deny the obvious abuse that the entire community faces from the usage of slurs to people getting fired at work because of their identity.

That word is a slur. It was made into one and it is known in mainstream pop culture around the world as being homophobic. Context is outside the realm of slurs. It's 100% about reclaimation and if you arent a part of the community that had this word used to refer to them, you shouldny be using it especially when referring to people. People can have panic attacks when using that word and stop acting like it's a common word that should become commonly used while ignoring its offensive history.

I really hope this isnt your lawyer man slamdown because all you're doing is denying and victimblaming.

>mfw after reading these posts

Except he probably isnt informed about the issues. If he bothered reading up on the purpose of those rallies he probably wouldn't be saying that. Sexuality is one ofthe biggest parts of an identity like you won't understand because you are the "average" You can keep blaming the victim but it really isn't the gsrm community it's people like you who deny the obvious abuse that the entire community faces from the usage of slurs to people getting fired at work because of their identity.

That word is a slur. It was made into one and it is known in mainstream pop culture around the world as being homophobic. Context is outside the realm of slurs. It's 100% about reclaimation and if you arent a part of the community that had this word used to refer to them, you shouldny be using it especially when referring to people. People can have panic attacks when using that word and stop acting like it's a common word that should become commonly used while ignoring its offensive history.

I really hope this isnt your lawyer man slamdown because all you're doing is denying and victimblaming.

Are you gay?

Honestly I don't like the word either, and I don't think it should be used casually when talking to people because more often than not, it will be considered offensive. I'd certainly feel like I was insulted if someone said it to me, even if it wasn't meant in that way. But that's probably because i've heard that word being spouted from the mouths of hateful people and it's a really ugly word when used in context.

eh, that's just me though.

Except he probably isnt informed about the issues. If he bothered reading up on the purpose of those rallies he probably wouldn't be saying that. Sexuality is one ofthe biggest parts of an identity like you won't understand because you are the "average" You can keep blaming the victim but it really isn't the gsrm community it's people like you who deny the obvious abuse that the entire community faces from the usage of slurs to people getting fired at work because of their identity.

That word is a slur. It was made into one and it is known in mainstream pop culture around the world as being homophobic. Context is outside the realm of slurs. It's 100% about reclaimation and if you arent a part of the community that had this word used to refer to them, you shouldny be using it especially when referring to people. People can have panic attacks when using that word and stop acting like it's a common word that should become commonly used while ignoring its offensive history.

I really hope this isnt your lawyer man slamdown because all you're doing is denying and victimblaming.

I'm sorry, but just because your gay doesn't mean it becomes a major part of your identity. I'm gay and let me tell you, I pineappleing hate guys that think that way. Whether I was gay or straight my personality, my identity, I feel would be the same. The only difference is I like guys over girls. The problem with gays is the over the top ones who think it's part of their identity and earn everyone else a bad rep. And yeah I was bullied a lot as a kid, called a papayagot daily and even beat up and spit on. But the word f'aggot describes you perfectly right now.

Also your attitude of "your not gay, you can't talk on the matter" is completely inappropriate.

Except he probably isnt informed about the issues.

Being comfortable with your sexuality doesn't mean flaunting it as if it's the only quality about you worth mentioning, and you're saying an open homosexual is not informed abou the issues? In a forum where majority, all but two I believe, moderators are in fact open homosexuals, who are in fact adults.

Look at our f`ucking admin, look at his posts, do any of them have this "I'm entitled to let everyone know I'm gay", no. Do you see him banning people using the word "f`aggot", no, do you see him prosecuting anyone who uses the word? F`ucking no.

Sexuality is one ofthe biggest parts of an identity like you won't understand because you are the "average"

You're not black so you can't understand racism
You're not in North Korea so ou can't understand oppression
You weren't in a war and cannot understand death
I don't go to church so I can' understand god

These concepts are the most retarded juvenile excuses for lack of argument any person cornered can come up with. I live in Italy during the time they didn't want americans there, they had rallies and any house that was seen american was vandalized. But no, I can't understand homosexual prejudice.

You can keep blaming the victim but it really isn't the gsrm community it's people like you who deny the obvious abuse that the entire community faces from the usage of slurs to people getting fired at work because of their identity.

e_e I'm not blaming the community, I'm blaming who I am quoting for christ sake. You exaggerate, online, your personal identity of being homosexual. You have no depth, you have no contribution, you're just the gay guy in a website that is majority Gay. Do you know how pathetic that is? The community you're trying to speak on behalf of doesn't accept your behavior.

That word is a slur. It was made into one and it is known in mainstream pop culture around the world as being homophobic.

And in the 90's dork/nerd were derogatories. I posted the history of the word because people were using half assed information. That's all it was, fu`cking data. BUT BECAUSE YOU'RE MELODRAMATIC, you read it as a statement of my opinion. My advice for all of you is when you give a word power, to yourself, you perpetuate the problem.

The victimization I was referring too earlier, is not even related to this, it was the fact you kept reading my posts and zoned in specifically on anything you deem offensive and label it flaming, make a point of it, then continue on with no contribution to my actual points. I don't care about this discussion of it, I'm just giving you the proper action to take against it.

Be honest, how many times have you had this conversation over this word with peers? How many times have you had this debate, and how many times have they essentially saying you're melodramatic and exaggerating? Do you not realize the vicous circle of not only redudancy but wasted breath when you sit here trying to convince people that the bb gun you were just shot with was actually a REX bullet? You won't get anything out of that nonsense

Context is outside the realm of slurs.

On an open forum where every post is documented, context doesn't matter? Yeah okay. Let's just put that on the words never to say again, because that's not an unrealistic standard.

I really hope this isnt your lawyer man slamdown because all you're doing is denying and victimblaming.

I find it adorable you are simply paraphrasing what I told you in the IRC.

The struggle is real.

Found it;

http://www.southperry.net/showthread.php?t=56654&page=1

Even you're in it [MENTION=5228]Razmos[/MENTION];

why do y'all keep mentioning me

Found it;

http://www.southperry.net/showthread.php?t=56654&page=1

Even you're in it Razmos;

Yeah, I still believe what I said there. I still don't like that word though, never have. I don't base my entire life around my sexuality but that doesn't mean i'm not affected by derogatory things people say, and my dislike of that particular word is due to my past experiences with it.

a website that is majority Gay

lolno

lolno

Majority not straight?

(which would mean the majority of members identify as LGBT, not just gay, because we do seem to have many Bi too. )

lolno

Majorly* gay

Majority not straight?

We have over 12k members, there is not way this forum is majority gay, not even active member wise is this forum majority gay.

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Majorly* gay

Alright, then, yes, yes Southperry is flaming.

lolno

pls

pls

Bisexual doesn't count as gay, I can count more bisexual members than pure gay members.