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When is it okay for a man to hit a woman?
#81
ZYXWVUT Wrote:Thunda's hypothetical woman hits hard. Besides, like you said, those two are completely different. I thought we were talking about the same actions. For example, the woman uppercuts a man, and leaves a mark, or the man slaps the woman. Also, if men accept the slap in the face as an emotional statement, so should the women when it's done to them.

In the end, all of this shouldn't happen. I am mentioning all this because of the assumption that this woman hit Thunda already.

I have Thunda on my ignore list because I consider his logic to be fruity (read: idiotic,) so I have no way of knowing (or caring) what he said. I read your post only.

Even if a girl is going totally psycho on you, she still won't do half the damage a guy would if he was going psycho. If a girl hits you, LEAVE. The thing that fucks with a girl the most is if you CUT the conversation off, and leave, not saying anything. That's more damaging to a chick emotionally than a slap will be to you. But if you do hit her, no matter what you said here on the internet, the cops will not believe you. "She hit me first" will do you no good in the police station.
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#82
I can't tell if you're agreeing or not. I didn't say much about hitting people back. Why are you participating if you have the guy I'm talking to on ignore?
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#83
Quantact Wrote:I have Thunda on my ignore list because I consider his logic to be fruity (read: idiotic,) so I have no way of knowing (or caring) what he said. I read your post only.

Even if a girl is going totally psycho on you, she still won't do half the damage a guy would if he was going psycho. If a girl hits you, LEAVE. The thing that pineapples with a girl the most is if you CUT the conversation off, and leave, not saying anything. That's more damaging to a chick emotionally than a slap will be to you. But if you do hit her, no matter what you said here on the internet, the cops will not believe you. "She hit me first" will do you no good in the police station.

Snarky comments still (talk about long-standing grudges, eh?). This is directed at other people instead, because Quantact won't see.

Some girls do hit harder than bitchslaps. And these aren't just hypothetical girls; there are girls at my school who can beat the crap out of a lot of guys. Of course, they don't do it for fun like some demented guys would, but what if you do meet one of these girls, and you get in a heated argument, and she hits you hard enough to dislocate or break something?
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#84
You should NEVER hit a woman, full stop
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#85
SasukeJnr Wrote:You should NEVER hit a woman, full stop
"Only a Sith deals in absolutes"

Never say never, there is always an exception.
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#86
WingZero Wrote:"Only a Sith deals in absolutes"

The Force is not real.
The POLICE is real.

Keep that in mind.
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#87
Quantact Wrote:The Force is not real.
The POLICE is real.

Keep that in mind.
Maybe I'm not understanding your post, but I threw that in for some humor.... :f6:
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#88
so did he!!
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#89
WingZero Wrote:"Only a Sith deals in absolutes"

Never say never, there is always an exception.


There is no exceptions when dealing with Domestic Violence. You're a man, you hit a woman and your ass goes to jail, plain & simple. Now it's up to HER if she feels like pressing charges and she's actually dumb enough to go back to your ass a 2nd time. In the case of Rihanna & CB, I don't find it a big deal b/c it happens in "normal" life anyways, so why should their celebrity status be any different? Even though Chris is labeled a hypocrite b/c he advocates no violence to women. It's all just rumors(as to why Chris hit her) b/c none of their agents are talking about the situation till it all settles down.

Edit: I find it funny how now that I'm listening to the radio, that there's a CB song playing & then when that's done a Rihanna song is playing.. THEN when i switch to the other station a Rihanna song is playing then a CB song. It's like a competition now lol
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#90
Quantact Wrote:The Force is not real.
The POLICE is real.

Keep that in mind.
The Police sing while beating women.
Glitter
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#91
There's always such a huge variety of situations that you can't really state something that easily...

Did she give him the SDT on purpose? Was it an accident?
If she's running towards you with a knife... Is it because she's a psycho? Is it because you killed his brother? Or stole her "eyewear"...

With all the possibilities out there, I simply can't state something other than "I personally wouldn't, but I may have to at some point, or even avoid it".
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#92
SuGaRnSp1C3 Wrote:There is no exceptions when dealing with Domestic Violence. You're a man, you hit a woman and your ass goes to jail, plain & simple. Now it's up to HER if she feels like pressing charges and she's actually dumb enough to go back to your ass a 2nd time. In the case of Rihanna & CB, I don't find it a big deal b/c it happens in "normal" life anyways, so why should their celebrity status be any different? Even though Chris is labeled a hypocrite b/c he advocates no violence to women. It's all just rumors(as to why Chris hit her) b/c none of their agents are talking about the situation till it all settles down.

Edit: I find it funny how now that I'm listening to the radio, that there's a CB song playing & then when that's done a Rihanna song is playing.. THEN when i switch to the other station a Rihanna song is playing then a CB song. It's like a competition now lol
Yes I agree that there are no exceptions to domestic violence, but I was referring to hitting a woman in general.

If some bitch is trying to kill me, I'd hit her without thinking. I don't want to die and I don't feel like running.... These reasons also work though:

1. they give you a STD
2. Dinner is cold/ not ready
3. you are drunk
4. they asking for it by trying to think
5. it is saturday and there is no beer
6. the voice says so
Rolleyes
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#93
WingZero Wrote:Yes I agree that there are no exceptions to domestic violence, but I was referring to hitting a woman in general.

If some bitch is trying to kill me, I'd hit her without thinking. I don't want to die and I don't feel like running.... These reasons also work though:

1. they give you a STD
2. Dinner is cold/ not ready
3. you are drunk
4. they asking for it by trying to think
5. it is saturday and there is no beer
6. the voice says so
Rolleyes

7. She forgot the A-1
8. She touched my googles.Goggleemoticon
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#94
When the woman puts your life in danger or will seriously harm you.
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#95
My strike point: They hit me first, and it actually hurts. (Doesn't work so well when they have a gun/big sword...)
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#96
SuGaRnSp1C3 Wrote:Now it's up to HER if she feels like pressing charges and she's actually dumb enough to go back to your ass a 2nd time. In the case of Rihanna & CB, I don't find it a big deal b/c it happens in "normal" life anyways, so why should their celebrity status be any different? Even though Chris is labeled a hypocrite b/c he advocates no violence to women.

it matter because media normalizes topics for the masses. im not going as far to say men will start beating their beaus and girls accepting it, but there will be a certain level of acceptance of it. along with that, how it resolves does show a certain level of our society. currently: CB has faced no jail time, Rih is going back to him, CB threw a pool party with a whole bunch of women w/o Rih there. our celebrities are also our idols, we as a mass, tend to follow their lead. they are the public voice now, not our politicians, teachers, artisans, or spiritual leaders anymore.

edit: its okay to hit a girl in street fighter....sometimes you just have to on your way to become a winner.
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#97
No.. It's not ok.. :/
It's not ok to hit anyone unless you need to hit them a little to snap them out of whatever madness or whatever they are having. I dont know! Im just mumbeling i guess xD
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#98
heronz Wrote:it matter because media normalizes topics for the masses. im not going as far to say men will start beating their beaus and girls accepting it, but there will be a certain level of acceptance of it. along with that, how it resolves does show a certain level of our society. currently: CB has faced no jail time, Rih is going back to him, CB threw a pool party with a whole bunch of women w/o Rih there. our celebrities are also our idols, we as a mass, tend to follow their lead. they are the public voice now, not our politicians, teachers, artisans, or spiritual leaders anymore.

edit: its okay to hit a girl in street fighter....sometimes you just have to on your way to become a winner.

1. A "beau" is a frequent male companion or male escort to a woman. The word is used to describe men, not women. It's one thing to get in a person's face over spelling errors, but with stuff like this you should use a dictionary before putting down words whose meaning you do not know.

2. Behavior appropriate in-game while playing Street Fighter is not appropriate behavior when dealing with real people.
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#99
FinalHeart Wrote:When the woman puts your life in danger or will seriously harm you.

Otherwise known as self-defense. Period. Smile

It's really not even worth arguing about, I think.

EDIT: Organized fighting out, really, women and men are usually separated for good reason, and if they aren't, it's organized fighting. Need I say more?
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No, a man should never hit a woman. Because a woman can never defense herself from a man attacking her, cause he is much stronger. And also, if the boyfriend/husband hit her once(and he shouldnt), he will hit her again, and again, and again... He will get used to hitting her. it will become a "normal" thing.
BTW, Heres an injury photo of Rihanna:

http://star94fm.com/images/2009/02/rihannabruises_o.jpg

Would YOU do that to a woman, not to mention the woman that you love?
No seriously, If a woman put your life in danger, you hit her go to the police? Eventaully, if you do hit her, you will be the blamed one no matter what the case is.
And in the Rihanna and Chris brown case, the police report says that Rihanna saw a message from a woman sent to Chris brown celephone. that started all the fight. Then Chris Brown got mad and start pushing her (while driving in the car), and then she faked a call to her friend telling her to wait at home with the police, at that point, chris brown got pissed and started fisting her like mad.
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