Are You A Virgin?

I am a born-again virgin. Does that count?

 Spoiler

I have only had sex with one person in my life, and although that sounds good on paper, our first time together happened while I was dating another guy. I was 19, and a spineless whore.

I'm 17, virgin and proud.

Without sounding bigheaded, I could get any gay guy near me. They've all asked me to hook up, I've denied every time. I want my first to be in a proper relationship with someone I care about so so much.

I'm a virgin, mother of two, in my forties.
Not interested, not pursuing, somewhat scared of the ramifications.
Not entirely ruling it out, though, under the right circumstances and with the right person. Sometimes I get curious, what all the excitement is about.

15, too young.

Dont think i will until i get married. too risky.

21 year old virgin!

Definitely hated it going through my teens. Fantasized and desired it all the time. Never got made fun of for it, though. In small town North Dakota everyone knew a loner nerd guy was most certainly a virgin anyway. The people who weren't virgins were the same group of people all having sex with each other (and the occasional 14-16 year old slut). ...yeah.

Desire for sex has gone down immensely in the past few years. I've become so happy with my lifestyle that I never want it to change. Ambition to do "anything" with my life has died completely. I'm almost to the point where I actually do NOT want to meet the girl who would make me happy. Thankfully the odds are abysmal in this cesspool of b'itches and whores. I can live ridiculously cheap with no female partner, and my free time is nearly maximum. I'm never going to "get laid" one day just to say I'm no longer a virgin. I'm not an insecure little boy, so that has no appeal to me. If I'm losing it, it's going to be to someone worthy. Odds are definitely looking good for a 30+ virgin. Gonna be awesome.

aw.

I guess I'm still a virgin by this pole.

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I am a born-again virgin. Does that count?

 Spoiler

I have only had sex with one person in my life, and although that sounds good on paper, our first time together happened while I was dating another guy. I was 19, and a spineless whore.

Haha, that's funny as hell. So you cheated on your date with your actual husband? You rule. [/color]

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i lole'd \m/

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21 year old virgin!

Definitely hated it going through my teens. Fantasized and desired it all the time. Never got made fun of for it, though. In small town North Dakota everyone knew a loner nerd guy was most certainly a virgin anyway. The people who weren't virgins were the same group of people all having sex with each other (and the occasional 14-16 year old slut). ...yeah.

Desire for sex has gone down immensely in the past few years. I've become so happy with my lifestyle that I never want it to change. Ambition to do "anything" with my life has died completely. I'm almost to the point where I actually do NOT want to meet the girl who would make me happy. Thankfully the odds are abysmal in this cesspool of b'itches and whores. I can live ridiculously cheap with no female partner, and my free time is nearly maximum. I'm never going to "get laid" one day just to say I'm no longer a virgin. I'm not an insecure little boy, so that has no appeal to me. If I'm losing it, it's going to be to someone worthy. Odds are definitely looking good for a 30+ virgin. Gonna be awesome.

I wonder what losing the interest in sex feels like. Trust me. I, like every other teenager I guess, felt curious and had experienced kissing and what not since I was 13~14, so the step I had to take to have sex was really small. I've never imagined what my life would've been like if I didn't have sex at all. I'm really really curious, like sex is just something in my life that I can't take away. [/color]

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I wonder what losing the interest in sex feels like. Trust me. I, like every other teenager I guess, felt curious and had experienced kissing and what not since I was 13~14, so the step I had to take to have sex was really small. I've never imagined what my life would've been like if I didn't have sex at all. I'm really really curious, like sex is just something in my life that I can't take away. [/color]

Feels good, man. Especially overcoming the retarded social stigma (you MUST have sex or you are a failure human, not COOL, etc). I feel free, completely at peace with myself. No regrets.

Never kissed/been kissed by anyone before, either.

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I wonder what losing the interest in sex feels like. Trust me. I, like every other teenager I guess, felt curious and had experienced kissing and what not since I was 13~14, so the step I had to take to have sex was really small. I've never imagined what my life would've been like if I didn't have sex at all. I'm really really curious, like sex is just something in my life that I can't take away. [/color]

Felix is kind of an exception in that he enjoys and is proud of being a societal outcast. Lucky there's the internet.

I can live ridiculously cheap with no female partner, and my free time is nearly maximum.

Disregard females.
Acquire currency.

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Felix is kind of an exception in that he enjoys and is proud of being a societal outcast. Lucky there's the internet.

Yes yes, I know, and I respect him a lot for that. It's just... it's not only the society is made in a way sex is one of the ways of succeding in life, but also the need man. Last time I was single I didn't have sex for like... 6 months and it felt terrible. Sometimes I would fap everyday because I couldn't stand how much I needed it. See. [/color]

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Weird thing for me when growing up and going through all those changes I never really had any sexual desire for anyone. It wasn't until I started dating my girlfriend for a while and getting really close to her before I actually had that normal teenage boy thing of fantasizing about sex.

Haha, that's funny as hell. So you cheated on your date with your actual husband? You rule.

I don't think she finds it as great as you. Last time she said something about it she sounded pretty torn up inside about it.

I remember I was drunk one time, and I was playing my vidyagaems and then my ex walked over to me and stripped. Great way to start.

21 year old virgin!

Definitely hated it going through my teens. Fantasized and desired it all the time. Never got made fun of for it, though. In small town North Dakota everyone knew a loner nerd guy was most certainly a virgin anyway. The people who weren't virgins were the same group of people all having sex with each other (and the occasional 14-16 year old slut). ...yeah.

Desire for sex has gone down immensely in the past few years. I've become so happy with my lifestyle that I never want it to change. Ambition to do "anything" with my life has died completely. I'm almost to the point where I actually do NOT want to meet the girl who would make me happy. Thankfully the odds are abysmal in this cesspool of b'itches and whores. I can live ridiculously cheap with no female partner, and my free time is nearly maximum. I'm never going to "get laid" one day just to say I'm no longer a virgin. I'm not an insecure little boy, so that has no appeal to me. If I'm losing it, it's going to be to someone worthy. Odds are definitely looking good for a 30+ virgin. Gonna be awesome.

i hope thats how i'll feel in 3 more years!

I'm glad some of you SPers here are not afraid to admit that you are virgins. Because if I was still one, I'd admit it too. Secondly, virgin-women are delicious.

15 year old (I'm going to be 16 in August), male, still virgin.

I guess I'm still too young, but.. well, I'm pretty sure that I will not get laid anytime soon. I think I never will.

My self-esteem is really low, I'm really insecure, and even if I've had (and still have) many girls as friends, they all just consider me as the "best friend", and we all know that if a girl considers you as her "best friend", you automatically have no chances of her seeing you as more than just a friend (or it's just really really rare).

Also, quoting DualReaver's post:

I'm more into sweet and lovey things. I'm one of those guys.

I'm one of those guys, too. I want to do it with the right person, someone I truly care for and who cares of me. But hey, nobody could ever like someone like me (nobody ever did), so I doubt that will ever happen. I don't go out often, nor do I really like doing it, I'm really reserved, I don't look nice, I'm fat (165 pounds and 6'1''). If you think that some girls think that look doesn't matter but personality does, well, I have a bad personality, too. I don't talk much and people never have fun when they talk with me. Sometimes others say that I look like an old man (well, sometimes my mentality really is like that). Well, that's true because I don't enjoy doing most things which other people of my age do, which are going to disco, getting drunk, smoking (never done any of the last two things and I'm totally against doing them), playing sports, etc., so yeah. I bet NO ONE would ever want to be my girlfriend. Like, seriously, I'm just TOO boring. Oh, I forgot to say that I'm also clumsy.

I don't play video games all day long like you'd think. But still, I'm a societal outcast and a failure at life. You'd think that I get good grades at school, at least. Nope, I don't. I sometimes get really bad ones, and that's not because I don't study. What else should I do, since I never go out? Sometimes I study a lot and get bad grades anyway. Sometimes it's because I don't feel like studying much either. I must be stupid, too. Seriously, I'm more of a failure than you could ever think.

Sometimes I don't even think I want to have a girlfriend or get laid with someone, because, you know, as Cancambo said:

I feel like I'll let the person down, emotionally wise.

That's how I feel, too. I feel that I'd just ruin the other person's life.

Nobody will ever really care of me. In fact, most of the people in my class don't. I only have a few friends who seem to care of me.

All this just to say that I didn't yet get laid. Yeah, I'm just 15 and it might be too early, but be sure that I never will, and not because I don't want to.

I'm a 19 year-old virgin. It has nothing to do with not trying or not wanting it, though. I've tried and tried and tried to get girlfriends in the past, but due to my horrible personality and my physical ugliness, I've never managed to get a single girl to even like me. I'm a lonely, lowly loser and I will stay that way as long as I live, no matter how hard I try to get away from being that way.