How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends?

"Hey mind if I sleep with you in a bed with you a bit?"

Well if I tell her no, I'll sound like a douche...
"Sure."


What a slut.

You're comparing two entirely different scenarios. No one that isn't in a relationship would walk up to a guy and say "Want to sleep with me?", if a girl did that, it's evident she's a whore, and the guy would have to be either drunk, outrageously horny, or has no sense of right and wrong.

You're comparing two entirely different scenarios. No one that isn't in a relationship would walk up to a guy and say "Want to sleep with me?", if a girl did that, it's evident she's a whore, and the guy would have to be either drunk, outrageously horny, or has no sense of right and wrong.

I thought cuddling was something only people who are in a relationship do. I guess I'm more out of touch with social norms than I thought.

By the way, I didn't mean sleep as in sex, I just meant sleeping with each other in the same bed cuddling together.

I thought cuddling was something only people who are in a relationship do. I guess I'm more out of touch with social norms than I thought.

By the way, I didn't mean sleep as in sex, I just meant sleeping with each other in the same bed cuddling together.

You're entirely off on 'cuddling'. Cuddling can be done if two people are not dating, friends can do that. At least, it's pretty damn normal here. I cuddled with a couple of girls that were close friends, but we're not dating. Also, when you meant 'sleeping', instinctively, my reaction was of course 'intercourse', so I responded in the sense that you meant so.

You're entirely off on 'cuddling'. Cuddling can be done if two people are not dating, friends can do that. At least, it's pretty damn normal here. I cuddled with a couple of girls that were close friends, but we're not dating. Also, when you meant 'sleeping', instinctively, my reaction was of course 'intercourse', so I responded in the sense that you meant so. Cuddling is basically the same as hugging, except it's a prolonged sense of satisfaction and love. I only think kissing mouth-to-mouth or at times, mouth-to-cheek usually means a sign of dating or relationships (serious or not).

EDIT: Oops, meant to edit my older post, not quote it. Oh well. Edited version? ^

You're entirely off on 'cuddling'. Cuddling can be done if two people are not dating, friends can do that. At least, it's pretty damn normal here. I cuddled with a couple of girls that were close friends, but we're not dating. Also, when you meant 'sleeping', instinctively, my reaction was of course 'intercourse', so I responded in the sense that you meant so.

Nah. When I think "sleeping together" I usually don't think anything sexual about it.