Is Red Leaf High friendship reward is 85 max per day?

It's 85 points per run and 85 per day without extra runs from using the CS. Depending on what you want and how your budget for meso/NX/time/patience wise is, you may want to consider revising on how you want to go at it.

You'd have about 39 days including today. That's 3315 Points total without NX. You need 4000 points in order to be able to buy the last two totems. Also, getting the top 3 totems ones will be the most expensive which will cost you 1b mesos for them. Equipping those 3 will give you a total of 46 all stats and 13 Weapon/Magic Att.

I'll probably go for the cheapest way. The ones that cost 100k, 10m, and 100m which gives 24 all stats and 4 Weapon/Magic Att.

Can you only buy 1 of each? o_O I can deal with just having derpy plus stats for 100k each, but spending 100mil for one item? I don't have enough income for that LOL