2008-11-18, 11:06 AM
On death- I know that my boyfriends EXPECTS for me to stay single and be in love with him for the rest of my life (XD), and I'm fine with that, since he's amazing and I'm perfectly content when I'm alone. If I die, I would like for him to remember me and love me forever and ever, and hopefully the most/in a unique way. I'd want for things that remind him of me to make him stop and smile (and tear up, on occasion), even when he's found somebody else to take care of him. And I do want for somebody else to take care of him. I don't ever want him to be lonely.
As for a disability. I'm SURE that he wouldn't ever leave me if I was disabled, and that always comforts me, but there are certain disabilities that I'd probably rather he move on from me with. I'd want for the relationship to stay worthwhile and happy to him, instead of being a weight on his life. And if he were disabled... I would hope that he feels the same. He'd always be that special guy to me and I doubt any other man would compare. X3 But I don't want for our relationship to grow sour to either of us.
As for a disability. I'm SURE that he wouldn't ever leave me if I was disabled, and that always comforts me, but there are certain disabilities that I'd probably rather he move on from me with. I'd want for the relationship to stay worthwhile and happy to him, instead of being a weight on his life. And if he were disabled... I would hope that he feels the same. He'd always be that special guy to me and I doubt any other man would compare. X3 But I don't want for our relationship to grow sour to either of us.