2012-02-14, 08:23 PM
I'm not going to say you guys are butthurt or anything, I'm going to simply say: you can choose how you react to emotionally to events like these. I totally understand an overwhelming amount of "in-your-faceness" that has to do with the corporate side of the holiday, but being depressed? C'mon.
Example: My ex of a few months just posted a Spotify playlist with the comment "Good with chocolate, wine, and loneliness
." Mind you he broke up with me and hasn't been with anyone since, so to some degree his loneliness is his own damn fault. And how do I feel seeing and knowing all that? Knowing that essentially he's saying being with me is worse than being lonely and depressed?
pineapple it. I'm not going to sit here and knock myself down just because someone gave up something amazing beyond their comprehension and don't have anything in its place. I may be single but I'm certainly not depressed. I have my moments of sadness here or there, but letting them dominate your emotional well being for even one day is taxing and so sad it breaks my heart.
Example: My ex of a few months just posted a Spotify playlist with the comment "Good with chocolate, wine, and loneliness
." Mind you he broke up with me and hasn't been with anyone since, so to some degree his loneliness is his own damn fault. And how do I feel seeing and knowing all that? Knowing that essentially he's saying being with me is worse than being lonely and depressed?pineapple it. I'm not going to sit here and knock myself down just because someone gave up something amazing beyond their comprehension and don't have anything in its place. I may be single but I'm certainly not depressed. I have my moments of sadness here or there, but letting them dominate your emotional well being for even one day is taxing and so sad it breaks my heart.