2011-10-23, 03:19 PM
You guys are putting too much of your advice on the thought that he doesn't want to go because of the girl. He doesn't want to go because of the dancing/what everyone considers "fun".
You just shouldn't have said yes if you don't want to go. If you dump her now she's either going to hate you or be fine with it (not like that matters though since you don't know her at all) and then your whole school is going to go through that rumor mill about you being a d'ick for dumping her or some s'hit. You don't have to scrounge for an excuse. Either go, or don't. Just be as nice as you can about it and anyone who thinks less of you can go f'uck themselves. It might even be better if you provide a replacement partner so she isn't stuck going alone.
You just shouldn't have said yes if you don't want to go. If you dump her now she's either going to hate you or be fine with it (not like that matters though since you don't know her at all) and then your whole school is going to go through that rumor mill about you being a d'ick for dumping her or some s'hit. You don't have to scrounge for an excuse. Either go, or don't. Just be as nice as you can about it and anyone who thinks less of you can go f'uck themselves. It might even be better if you provide a replacement partner so she isn't stuck going alone.