2011-07-07, 03:54 PM
xLeviathan Wrote:Maybe it is when we're 26 or 27 and ready to get on with life, but that is a stipulation that they need to make aware at the beginning of the relationship. Who knows if I'll still be toking at that age but why not? Maybe people get a kick out of pot when they're young because they're young and it's illegal but y'know, I like smoking and I like getting high...I'll smoke it 'til I die if I feel like it.
My gf and I actually had a convo about this. We both blaze now, and I see absolutely no reason to stop, but she was definitely pushing the "stop when we get older thing." Personally, I see myself as a 70 yr old retiree blazin and enjoying the rest of my days. As for smoking cigarettes though, she smokes them occasionally, and I will admit they are great when drunk. But, I guilt-tripped her into quitting, why keep smoking something thats terrible for your body and then quit something awesome like green? She quit a couple weeks ago, so its all good now though!!! I think talking tot he person is definitely the best option, you dont have to be accusatory or unreasonable about it either. If you really want someone to quit, help them. Show them their options and actually help them get through it rather than just denouncing it and making them feel alienated and stressed. That could just make them go smoke more.