Dealing with smoking

As long as they don't do it that often, I'm totally fine with it. Once, twice a month or something. If their my girlfriend, I'd be fine as long as they don't smell like it all the time. Smoking is bad, yeah, but as long as you don't do it excessively or often, I don't really see a reason to have a problem with it.

To be honest, I'd only date someone who smokes weed at this point. Obviously I wouldn't date someone who is against it because it's part of my lifestyle and I don't feel like giving it up for someone. Not right now at least. I also wouldn't date someone who is just "okay" with it because eventually that becomes, "Well, I was, but now it makes me uncomfortable..." kind of thing.

This I am slightly confused about though. I mean, I'm fine with kids smoking weed. I've never done it, but as long as you take care of priorities and make sure you don't like, sell your couch to buy weed or something, there's really nothing wrong. But I am confused about what you mean about the people changing. Nobody I know who's okay with smoking weed has ever started becoming crazy about people not doing it. I could only expect that to come when you're like, 26-27 or something, when you actually start to settle down with someone.