2011-05-29, 04:38 PM
Nope, sorry, I've changed my mind after actually reading your post.
You need to make your intentions clear and lunch won't cut it at this point. Don't make it a fancy dinner but it needs to be clear it's a date. Don't go spilling your guts and talking about all of your feelings or anything like that, and don't treat her like she's a delicate flower or something untouchable. Just be cool, be yourself, but be clear. In case you're not getting it: clarity is key.
Dinner, though. Lunch dates work for people you've just met and are interested in. Lunch dates between friends are too common to allow you to figure anything out.
You need to make your intentions clear and lunch won't cut it at this point. Don't make it a fancy dinner but it needs to be clear it's a date. Don't go spilling your guts and talking about all of your feelings or anything like that, and don't treat her like she's a delicate flower or something untouchable. Just be cool, be yourself, but be clear. In case you're not getting it: clarity is key.
Dinner, though. Lunch dates work for people you've just met and are interested in. Lunch dates between friends are too common to allow you to figure anything out.