2011-05-19, 04:28 AM
Refuting Sarah
Going back on topic...
I'm proud of who I am. The "pushing for success" mentality I have - in contrast to what you said - will Feel free to criticize me for how I approach things. But in the long run, the "working hard" mentality will show itself. A lot. I'm not speaking simply because I'm just an Asian. I'm speaking this because I strive for success, and I don't give up easily on things that I set my eyes upon. In the long run, the difference is extremely huge. It defines your success or failures in life.
But seriousness aside, I do have my fun at times when I finish a task that was laid out for me, or need a break from the stress. I"m not the typical "no-life Asian", contrary to what you attacked me for, Sarah. Otherwise I wouldn't even be playing computer games as leisure, or even be here on Southperry right now. Or be able to explore what the world has to offer to me every day, and broaden my knowledge of different kinds of people. Had I gone the "pure Asian route", I would be a completely different person - with negative consequences - and I hate to see myself be like that. Yet I still hold certain aspects of "being an Asian" - hardworking, studious - to provide the discipline I need for success.
And plus, Sarah, you seem to generalize Asians too much. We are hard working, but we're not the "no-lifers" you're portraying us for. I'm not offended, but maybe get your mind out of a narrow mindset? Asians are much more of a variety than you perceive us to be. And I've seen many types of Asians - personality-wise - myself.
Again, the article is not meant to say that Asians have "no spirit" in general. Plus, there are some ideas and themes within that book that are a complete contrast to what the author says in the beginning (aka what was written in the article). Open your eyes.