2011-02-18, 03:29 AM
Kunagisa Wrote:Oh yes, believe me, I don't think standards should be lowered as well; which is one of the reasons why I'd never enter a relationship because my standards are impossible for anyone to reach, and I'm not lowering them for anyone. But realistically, most people have to if they want to get in a relationship.
But also look at it from their perspective, if your standards of them are high, surely, their standards of you must also be high, so you would also have to live up to their expectations. So you're right, it'd be pretty impossible and you'd both have to be near top-tier quality in terms of looks and personality.
I used to have pretty high standards, but I didn't see the point in that mostly because a person that's "perfect" in my mind will never exist. You can try to shape your significant other to be like that, but that's just awkward. Everybody has flaws. Then again, I also don't have an extremely low standard. As long as the other person is willing to meet up to my expectations (kicking my ass if I'm being a d`ick, common interests, stay in shape, and telling me when I am wrong and hopefully correcting me), I'd be satisfied.