2011-01-31, 10:25 PM
Ultimatums NEVER work. Don't do it. Just straight up tell him what you're going to do and DO IT, them tell him that once he shows that you can trust him again that you'll be more flexible. You're just going to cause yourself to suffer longer both financially and emotionally if you put it off. Being tough is HARD but those feelings of guilt sure beat the hell out of enabling him to be a schmuck.
This is a lesson that will either help him for life or ruin your friendship, and if he relies on you so much than it's not a real friendship anyway. You're going to be the bad guy no matter what. Might as well do it right.
This is a lesson that will either help him for life or ruin your friendship, and if he relies on you so much than it's not a real friendship anyway. You're going to be the bad guy no matter what. Might as well do it right.