2011-01-30, 02:28 PM
Wife.
We could have other children, natural or adopted.
Yes, losing an unborn child is hard, but it's not nearly as hard as losing a person you already know and love and share a life with.
(If your question were something like "there's a fire in your house and your wife and child are both unconscious from smoke inhalation, who would you drag out knowing the other would likely die?" it would be harder for me).
As for it affecting my wife - she doesn't have to know. I can tell her, truthfully, that the doctors tried to save them both, but failed.
We could have other children, natural or adopted.
Yes, losing an unborn child is hard, but it's not nearly as hard as losing a person you already know and love and share a life with.
(If your question were something like "there's a fire in your house and your wife and child are both unconscious from smoke inhalation, who would you drag out knowing the other would likely die?" it would be harder for me).
As for it affecting my wife - she doesn't have to know. I can tell her, truthfully, that the doctors tried to save them both, but failed.