Taking huge steps

There has been a huge debate over "living together before marriage pros and cons" esp. for Chinese community(I think)
and usually this would be a hard decision for the girls side, which greatly involved how her family deal with it, how would people in her social network think of her (of course, if she cares, and greatly depend on culture background)

I think both of you should have know the pros and cons of living together before marriage(sounds too serious), that's why you ask for more input.

I don't understand your post. Parents and family have nothing to do with the issue at hand here, haha. Yeah, I've kinda explained which are the points we aren't really coming to an agreement.