2010-12-06, 08:40 PM
I personally wouldn't go with it, but you seem pretty determined so I don't think I'm going to rain on your potential parade. You're a pretty smart guy and I'm sure you know how to plan for the worst, as that is exactly what you need to do when making risky decisions such as these.
Now I'm just assuming things, but when you say "sustaining a home for your girlfriend" does this mean paying for all of her expenses? Have you two sat down and seriously talked about this? Remember that you two should be supporting each other; sharing a home with somebody else shouldn't be a one-way street unless you have more than enough funds to pull it off, which you obviously don't. What are you plans as far as financials go?
Now I'm just assuming things, but when you say "sustaining a home for your girlfriend" does this mean paying for all of her expenses? Have you two sat down and seriously talked about this? Remember that you two should be supporting each other; sharing a home with somebody else shouldn't be a one-way street unless you have more than enough funds to pull it off, which you obviously don't. What are you plans as far as financials go?