2010-12-06, 08:50 AM
After a couple years of keeping a demanding schedule, I knew I would burn out at some point. Also, I wanted a family, and I knew I would probably have gotten her pregnant midway through school. Plans usually never finish the way they start.
If it's meant to be, you can let go, and it will all come back eventually. Things can click again, chemistry can spark like it always has.
If you can make it work, so be it. But you must be brutally honest with yourself about how well you can handle what's on your plate now and in the foreseeable future.
Friend of mine has a gf, did work part time, and was a full time student. First 9 months- year was fine. Then reality set in. It all caught up to him. Good guy, but stress does all kinds of things to a man. Had to go a few semesters barely enrolled in school to let things simmer down.
If it's meant to be, you can let go, and it will all come back eventually. Things can click again, chemistry can spark like it always has.
If you can make it work, so be it. But you must be brutally honest with yourself about how well you can handle what's on your plate now and in the foreseeable future.
Friend of mine has a gf, did work part time, and was a full time student. First 9 months- year was fine. Then reality set in. It all caught up to him. Good guy, but stress does all kinds of things to a man. Had to go a few semesters barely enrolled in school to let things simmer down.