2010-12-06, 05:48 AM
Worthyness Wrote:sometimes asking your parents for help works. they're more in tuned with teh growing up part of life
But if you aren't on good terms with your parents, i'd wait it out for a little longer and see how you do with this girl. 2 months is big, but not THAT big to warrant moving in with each other (my opinion).Granted you've known her for a while, people are different when you're living with them. It may be happy and joyful at the start and you could date them and be joyful, but sometimes they're terrible terrible roommates.
Don't rush such a decision. Talk it out with your girl and your family (in case you need financial support/emotional support when you run into a barrier). It'll be rough on the start, but things always get better. You just ahve to know when the time is right. Do what you feel is the right thing, but consider other people's opinions and feelings too (but you already know that don't you? You did come to the interwebs for help ;D)
Well, it hasn't been two months only, like I've stated, since the first time we've started dating until now we've been at least 2 and so years together. My parents do know that I want to move out, and they are neutral about it (if you wanna go for it, do it they say) but I haven't really talked about the possibility of moving out with my girlfriend.