2008-09-11, 07:12 PM
Doesn't really matter to me. I've dated a guy a month younger than me and one nine months older, but I don't count the first one because we were in the 8th grade and he came out of the closet a year later... And is also my best friend. :f6:
Anyway. Sometimes I wish we were the same age so that I wouldn't have to wait so long for us both to be 21 (and be able to cruise, yarly), or so it would be easier for us to take a class together. Plus, he's going off to grad school next year, and I won't be done yet... That's going to be terrible. =(
I think he is more mature than most guys my age, but then again, he's more mature than most guys his age, too.
Bottom line is, it's about compatibility to me, no matter the age. Even extreme age differences are the way they are because extreme age differences create this deep-down incompatibility in what the two of you want, or think you want. Waiting for someone isn't a good idea, either, because by the time they mature, they may have changed completely.
Anyway. Sometimes I wish we were the same age so that I wouldn't have to wait so long for us both to be 21 (and be able to cruise, yarly), or so it would be easier for us to take a class together. Plus, he's going off to grad school next year, and I won't be done yet... That's going to be terrible. =(
I think he is more mature than most guys my age, but then again, he's more mature than most guys his age, too.
Bottom line is, it's about compatibility to me, no matter the age. Even extreme age differences are the way they are because extreme age differences create this deep-down incompatibility in what the two of you want, or think you want. Waiting for someone isn't a good idea, either, because by the time they mature, they may have changed completely.