2008-09-10, 02:27 PM
There is one way (that I can think of) of not hurting the guy too bad.
If you see early on in the relationship that he's interested and you're not, just tell him. For example he's trying to put his arm around your waist just give him a kinda puzzled look and say "What the pineapple are you doing?" (not in an angry bitchy kind of way), He'll most likely get the hint right away. However the stubborn (or stupid) ones will say stuff like "putting my arm around you
" or something of the sorts, back away for him a bit and say "well.... don't". If he keeps doing this though then just tell him straight up that you feel nothing for him.
But after some time of him being interested in you it's a whole different story, he could get kinda obsessed about you and then there is no sure way to end it well.
Just as an advice, don't prolong his suffering. If you know that someone has feeling for you and you don't have any for him make sure he gets it fast. It's better to know right away that the girl isn't interested than nurturing false hopes that will undoubtedly be shattered.
If you see early on in the relationship that he's interested and you're not, just tell him. For example he's trying to put his arm around your waist just give him a kinda puzzled look and say "What the pineapple are you doing?" (not in an angry bitchy kind of way), He'll most likely get the hint right away. However the stubborn (or stupid) ones will say stuff like "putting my arm around you
" or something of the sorts, back away for him a bit and say "well.... don't". If he keeps doing this though then just tell him straight up that you feel nothing for him.But after some time of him being interested in you it's a whole different story, he could get kinda obsessed about you and then there is no sure way to end it well.
Just as an advice, don't prolong his suffering. If you know that someone has feeling for you and you don't have any for him make sure he gets it fast. It's better to know right away that the girl isn't interested than nurturing false hopes that will undoubtedly be shattered.