2010-11-02, 04:30 PM
I'm not this kind of "second chance guy" if you ask me. I don't really trust that people would change with a chat or something. I don't pineapple up with my few trustworth friends, who doesn't surpass 10 or 11 people overall, if one of them just do something like your friend did, i'd pay with the same thing.
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I just believe in this, if someone has done that once, it's not because he's in a bad situation and needs you, that he'll change completely. If someone is a good friend of mine, it wouldn't do that once, at all. I believe on the few real friends i got, other than people i just talk and talk, but don't have my complete trust and that i can't talk about anything with them.
I have a very few true friends, and i find it better than having a thousand ones, but when you're pineappleed up, they'll just go away, making you see you had absolutely no true friends you could count at all.
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Regarding the fact of forgiving and not looking back, i wouldn't do that. Because if you forgive now, you'll just forget what he has done, and if he does again, he'll just think you would forgive again. And even if he asks you to forget the past, in the first discussion, he'd refer to past situations to explain or try to avoid things.
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If it was me, well, he has done that once, even being in a bad situation, he won't change completely, even with these arguments that wish that could go back in time to repair that.
What has been done can't be repaired. Friendship is like a crystal, when it cracks or is damaged, even if it doesn't break apart, it can never be repaired.
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Only the time can decide such things. But really, i wouldn't forgive him immediately. You've lost your trust on him, why to forgive and have a friend that you don't know if he'll do that again?
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I just believe in this, if someone has done that once, it's not because he's in a bad situation and needs you, that he'll change completely. If someone is a good friend of mine, it wouldn't do that once, at all. I believe on the few real friends i got, other than people i just talk and talk, but don't have my complete trust and that i can't talk about anything with them.
I have a very few true friends, and i find it better than having a thousand ones, but when you're pineappleed up, they'll just go away, making you see you had absolutely no true friends you could count at all.
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Regarding the fact of forgiving and not looking back, i wouldn't do that. Because if you forgive now, you'll just forget what he has done, and if he does again, he'll just think you would forgive again. And even if he asks you to forget the past, in the first discussion, he'd refer to past situations to explain or try to avoid things.
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If it was me, well, he has done that once, even being in a bad situation, he won't change completely, even with these arguments that wish that could go back in time to repair that.
What has been done can't be repaired. Friendship is like a crystal, when it cracks or is damaged, even if it doesn't break apart, it can never be repaired.
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Only the time can decide such things. But really, i wouldn't forgive him immediately. You've lost your trust on him, why to forgive and have a friend that you don't know if he'll do that again?