2010-06-13, 04:16 PM
[color="#cc8899"]I absolutely hate offending or hurting people, so I'm the opposite - unless someone pisses me off (rare, outside of internet trolls), I tend to be polite and generally pretty happy. I do get upset when people ruin something I'm working on or get in my way when I'm trying to do something (especially if they make some horrendously obvious mistake or won't listen to my advice/requests), and I do tend to let people know that I'm not happy with them for doing so. Doesn't mean I dislike them.
But I digress -
If I don't like someone, I keep it to myself unless pushed pretty far. I'll vent later, when they're not around. I'm probably the least likely person to willfully say something that I know will upset someone. However, I tend to not process my thoughts before speaking, so I often blurt something out that wasn't exactly what I meant to convey (my choice of vocabulary in normal conversation isn't always spot-on, and I usually have to rephrase something to clarify or amend a mistake).[/COLOR]
But I digress -
If I don't like someone, I keep it to myself unless pushed pretty far. I'll vent later, when they're not around. I'm probably the least likely person to willfully say something that I know will upset someone. However, I tend to not process my thoughts before speaking, so I often blurt something out that wasn't exactly what I meant to convey (my choice of vocabulary in normal conversation isn't always spot-on, and I usually have to rephrase something to clarify or amend a mistake).[/COLOR]