2010-05-01, 12:07 AM
Cannot pick both. Anyone can do that. Choose one that you feel is more important.
I was discussing this with Blaine on MSN just now, and it just occurred to me that some of the 16 year old girls I know are more mature than some of the 17-18 year old girls I know. It's kinda frightening. I've known girls that are near my age range that I just can't stand to be around just because they giggle at the simplest of things, or have no proper public etiquette.
Then there are some 16 year olds that acts like they're friggin 20, which is really annoying. Because it's like "OH WOW, she's really quiet and mature, and knows when to talk instead of barging in when I speak to my friends." or some sh`t. Pisses me off.
I can't find a chick that's near my age range that has some of the more common traits I wish. Then again, I guess you can't pick and choose, just gotta live with the good and the bad, right? I've been on dates a lot, but the girls I happen to like ends up getting a boyfriend a month or two after because I work too much and don't have enough time to dedicate my time to them, which makes me feel really bad.
If I had to pick maturity of age-gap, I'd have to pick maturity. I think age can be excluded in some situations, though not all. If I had a younger girl, because I am 21, the youngest I might go for is 16 or 17, not any younger just because it would look awkward and I'd feel uncomfortable. As for older women, I am extremely into those types of girls, but the oldest I'd go for is near 24. I felt more-so at ease with older women though, I must say. But I still prefer maturity over age, if that must be.
What do you prefer in your men or women? Once again, try to stay away from picking both.
I was discussing this with Blaine on MSN just now, and it just occurred to me that some of the 16 year old girls I know are more mature than some of the 17-18 year old girls I know. It's kinda frightening. I've known girls that are near my age range that I just can't stand to be around just because they giggle at the simplest of things, or have no proper public etiquette.
Then there are some 16 year olds that acts like they're friggin 20, which is really annoying. Because it's like "OH WOW, she's really quiet and mature, and knows when to talk instead of barging in when I speak to my friends." or some sh`t. Pisses me off.
I can't find a chick that's near my age range that has some of the more common traits I wish. Then again, I guess you can't pick and choose, just gotta live with the good and the bad, right? I've been on dates a lot, but the girls I happen to like ends up getting a boyfriend a month or two after because I work too much and don't have enough time to dedicate my time to them, which makes me feel really bad.
If I had to pick maturity of age-gap, I'd have to pick maturity. I think age can be excluded in some situations, though not all. If I had a younger girl, because I am 21, the youngest I might go for is 16 or 17, not any younger just because it would look awkward and I'd feel uncomfortable. As for older women, I am extremely into those types of girls, but the oldest I'd go for is near 24. I felt more-so at ease with older women though, I must say. But I still prefer maturity over age, if that must be.
What do you prefer in your men or women? Once again, try to stay away from picking both.