2010-04-30, 07:22 PM
Sarah Wrote:Natural reponse.
Kind of grossed out by how many of you think this is JUST FINE, LET 'EM DO WHAT THEY WANT. It's not like this is his grandma through marriage or anything; he is her BLOOD DESCENDENT. I mean, it's gross enough that they're "in love" and stuff, but that's something I can forget about because it's just disgustingness between two people. They're bringing a child into their world though, that's dispicable. It's not just a GOOD STORY for the kid like spidey suggested, it's going to leave the kid pineappleed up and confused for his/her entire life. If anyone finds out about it they're going to be terrible to this kid who doesn't deserve to be treated that way.
It's not like they even grew up with each other. They're complete strangers. Don't know why I'm responding though, you have very strong viewpoints on stuff like this. I group your post in the same lump of posts that label homosexuality as something morally incorrect. That said, I don't really take either position seriously anyway.
Quote:This is two stupid people being selfish and disgusting.
Most people do selfish things while in love. Some people think of love as an exchange of mutual selfish desires between two people.
Sarah Wrote:Yeah it's not like kids get bullied into suicide ridiculously often and that school systems are fairly negligent in dealing with these things. As a former "mean girl" I can almost guarantee you this kid's life is going to be very hard because kids don't think, and many teachers don't do anything. And saying GET OVER IT is just the most ridiculous insensitive thing I've ever heard. At 8 years old you don't have a whole lot of control over what hurts your feelings, especially when EVERYONE is being mean.
Yeah, because where you grew up is the same place where everyone grew up. Who knows what the kid will go through. The kid will live in a different environment, and grow up with a different generation of children than you did. This isn't even something most kids would know about anyway, unless the child made it known to anyone purposely.
I'm curious, what are your thoughts on gay couples adopting or borrowing an egg/sperm from donation? Do you feel they're selfish as well? Interracial couples? Those are some other parents that would stand out and may lead to bullying. Either answer you give is fine, this isn't meant to be some test or lead up into anything. I'd just like a better idea of your ideas for personal reference.
