Time to BLOW YOUR MIND

Dissapointed. Don't even use that word that much.

This. I'm not sure where they grew up at where "actually" was used as slang and thrown into random sentences to the point where it's comparable with "like".

In fact, I use "like" in the annoying fashion a lot. Language speech patterns come depend on your environment. Perhaps you heard this on a LOCAL station where the LOCALS in your area overuse "actually". I use usually use actually in sentences where it naturally fits, and most likely don't use it more than once every few paragraphs.

By the way, I couldn't figure it out on my are own.

↑ That's a phrase I use often. "By the way" is used in a lot in my daily language, and I'm not even sure where I got it from. Nobody in my family uses it, but I got it from somewhere.