How to tell a girl that you want only to stay as friends?

Put in your blog, or perhaps tell her directly, something like, "blah blah so busy blah blah. Sure am glad I don't have a girlfriend atm, she'd be so neglected"
Or possibly, "My buddy tried to introduce me to this girl, but man, I really don't have time for a relationship right now, got way too many claims on my time and attention as it is."

That bolded line won't work. A stubborn lady will insist that she doesn't mind. Remember, shes kinda head over heels.


@Omni - why do you keep "haha-ing"? Obviously, I don't know how you sound irl, but it -can- give her a false impression. For example, she might think one of the things that're great about you is that you laugh at everything she says. (just an example).


Personally, I'm the type who gets guilty over making someone feel like crap. Even if they did deserve it. So in these situations, I typically just cold shoulder/shun them. Giving them polite attention isn't doing its job. So I act like they're starting to become a pain in the ass (by making my irritation clear).