Really. I need help. Bad. There's this one chick that likes me, and it's strongly hinted when me and her have conversations. Sometimes, we would be walking to the pier or something, and she'd walk right next to me. She would twirl her hair around and say "Ya know, it's pretty cold tonight. Man, I wish I had someone to cuddle", and turn her eyes and attention towards me. I take a quick glance at her and then look somewhere else on purpose so she knows that I'm not interested. I just say "I see. Haha." as to make a polite response.
She's 18, and she's really cute and all, but my life is way too complicated and busy at the moment to be involved in relationships (at least, I think so). So I purposely update my blogs by saying 'blah blah blah So guess what's new? I've been extremely busy with school and work blah blah blah' when I update my blog, hoping that she'd notice that as a hint. She seems to have laid-off a bit, but I don't know if that's because she noticed my blog, or if she noticed that I've been busy lately.
I tend to have problems telling people the truth at times, because I can't stand seeing someone sad or depressed because of the things I do. I hate being too nice sometimes, but I also hate to sound like a douchebag by saying "I don't like you that way. I want to stay as friends.", I don't want to be direct. In my entire life, I changed a lot. When I was younger, I was a bit violent and aggressive. But when I grew older, I guess I sorta turned into a softie. I hate seeing people hate me or getting overly depressed because of the words I say, so I try not to cause others emotional pain. If anything, I try to make a light-hearted conversation and hint things rather than be direct.
If anybody could give actual helpful advice, I'd appreciate it. I'm sure I'll see some pretty useless and sarcastic remarks.
She's 18, and she's really cute and all, but my life is way too complicated and busy at the moment to be involved in relationships (at least, I think so). So I purposely update my blogs by saying 'blah blah blah So guess what's new? I've been extremely busy with school and work blah blah blah' when I update my blog, hoping that she'd notice that as a hint. She seems to have laid-off a bit, but I don't know if that's because she noticed my blog, or if she noticed that I've been busy lately.
I tend to have problems telling people the truth at times, because I can't stand seeing someone sad or depressed because of the things I do. I hate being too nice sometimes, but I also hate to sound like a douchebag by saying "I don't like you that way. I want to stay as friends.", I don't want to be direct. In my entire life, I changed a lot. When I was younger, I was a bit violent and aggressive. But when I grew older, I guess I sorta turned into a softie. I hate seeing people hate me or getting overly depressed because of the words I say, so I try not to cause others emotional pain. If anything, I try to make a light-hearted conversation and hint things rather than be direct.
If anybody could give actual helpful advice, I'd appreciate it. I'm sure I'll see some pretty useless and sarcastic remarks.