2010-04-13, 08:47 PM
TøbiasBlack Wrote:THATS THE SPIRIT!
>_>
im 20, and so far ive only ever been kissed while intoxicated... heavily regret it. she smokes... yeah, i refuse to date women that smoke.
but anyways; its entirely possible though that you'll just find someone and you and her will have just so many things in common and enjoy spending so much time with one another... sparks will fly... if you dont meet the woman of your dreams then at least you will meet a woman with whom you'll have as a lifelong friend. Humans are weird creatures like that.
i wanted to avoid this, but
reading over what i missed, i just had to comment on it.
Relationships, when they actually mean something, are anything but a hassle. I can understand your POV; having to constantly deal with someone that "just texts you to say hi," or has outrageously high demands of their bf/gf, or wants/expects to be lavished is not something anyone wants to deal with. Relationships don't have to just be dating, you can have a bf/gf with whom you do homework with, study together with, just sit at home watching movies, or simple day-to-day things. Anything is only ever a hassle if you make it into one. Finding a job, getting into (a decent) college, meeting someone you want to go out with, making friends, and just a shi'tton more things are overly complicated if you put too much doubt in them and yourself. ive seen couples where they only ever meet two days out of the week, and yet remain together with the other person and doesnt cheat on them.
Unless youre a hopeless shut in who has no idea where to go just to meet people, has only a handful of friends (and even of that handful only ever talks to any of them rarely), doesnt go to school/work and is living off of the system, and has barely any confidence in yourself, you'll never meet anyone; and all that is amplified if youre about as confident as a house cat enjoys a swimming pool.
Erm well that's the thing. I don't like women...