2010-04-12, 01:33 PM
Flowsion Wrote:You're really telling met hat you can tell how confident he is via his online personality? He's obviously not confident enough or he wouldn't have had troubles in his teenage years, lmao. Felix is not charismatic or confident at all, he's quite the opposite. He's a reclusive anti-charismatic manchild.
I'm not insecure at all, I'm very secure about myself and I care a whole deal of what the 'world' thinks of me because it is important to me to be see in good light by the world. It's important that females find me attractive, it's important that clients think I'm trustworthy and a good guy, it's important that employers and employees think of me as a charismatic and strong person.
It doesn't matter where you live because everyone else in that area lives in the same place. Your parents do not matter at all, you work around those road blocks. I had very, very strict parents and I'm fine.
only going to argue the points in bold, because the rest makes sense.
You show me a teenager that has their life stable and set, their minds not raging with hormones, their social life well within their grasps, and their responsibilities in line, and i'll show you a kid with heart disease by the age of 25. Teenagers arent meant to have their lives be in order, its part of the physical aspects of growing up. the body is changing, and so it the mind.
You cant honestly sit there and say where one is from and what their upbringing is determines how they live. You compare two people, twin brothers for examples sake, but one lived with his parent in a city, and the other in the suburbs. They are identical in looks, but i guarantee you ask them questions about any topic, and both the way they answer and the answers they give will be different. You compare a child that lived with coddling, over-protective, conservative parents, to old fashioned ones who werent afraid to spank their child when they misbehaved, taught them the value of a dollar, and how to take care of themselves; you will obviously get two VERY different types of adults.