Filp Hole

Define a considerable amount of time, effort, and funds. Because we do spend a lot of time together, but it's not forced. Effort hardly since we both enjoy being together. And funds not so much at all because she is the type of girl that values love over physical things. Hell, if I got her a diamond ring on my own she would most likely turn it down.

If it's not forced, then that's cool, relationships are meant for you. If your money isn't constantly being blown on her, that's fine as well. Not everyone can get into a relationship like that.

I'm not much of a relationship person. I hate spending time with people, regardless of who they are. This is why my family rarely talks to me and I have no real friends.

Even if I did like being around people, I don't find it worth the effort to find someone who meets such a high standard I've set, one nearly impossible for anyone to reach. No, I've no plans on lowering those for anyone and "just settling for what I can get".

I'm obviously not the relationship person, even if I didn't have a negative perception over relationships in general judging by what every relationship I've ever witness in real life and online turn into. All following similar steps in their downwards spiral.

They start off peachy and fine, not a care in the world. Lovey dovey, feeling like they can't find any faults with their partner and think they'll be in it for the long run. Fast forward some and the relationship starts going through the general hardships. By this point they may still seem like a normal lovey dovey couple to others, still saying sweet nothings to each other. But on the inside they don't exactly feel as bright and optimistic as they used to. They still may feel that their relationship will last, but notice the problems here and there. But that's okay, because love is all about accepting the good and bad of your partner, right?

Fast forward more and it gets to the point where one or both parties feel that they're hanging on to something that will easily escape from their grasp. perhaps they still have feelings for each other, but realize that they don't feel as happy with that person as they once where. they may hope for the relationship to last, but feel by this point it's hard to actually make it last.

Then it can get to the part where either one person flat out breaks up, or they kinda stay in "relationship limbo", where they're not really in a relationship yet kinda are. Nobody wants to end it, so it just becomes stressful for both parties and drags on longer than it should. They realize that it's pretty much done for but don't want to let go, or possibly don't know how without hurting the other. Ironically, this ends up hurting the other more, since they have to sit back and endure a relationship that's dead, hanging on to hope that will never come to them.


So really, I'm glad for you and all. You seem to have a personality most fit for a relationship and found someone with a personality that fits. I'm going to take your word for it and assume you're not omitting things or lying to yourself to keep your argument solid. Your relationship is the first I've seen to kinda follow that pseudo Hollywood happy-couple relationship. Not that I know your relationship in depth or anything, but from the little you've said so far, it's certainly better than any relationship I've seen unfold.