2009-11-12, 05:35 PM
Cheating is the single worst mistake I've ever made in my entire life.
That being said, in many ways, I'm glad I did it. I learned a lot about myself, decided to grow a spine, I'm still with "the other man," and I learned how not to end a relationship. Would I ever do it again? HELL NO.
I don't think it's a good idea if you're in a committed relationship. If you're just dating, then sure, date as many girls as you want, you're not attached to any of them. But if you say to someone, "I want to be with you, but I also want to meet other people to see if I want to be with them instead," well, who the hell would want to be your backup plan if things don't work out? It would seem that you're unsure of the relationship you're in currently, looking for an easy way out, or are in the relationship to have a sense of stability or security without actually dedicating yourself to someone.
If two people can agree on this arrangement and be okay with it, well, more power to them.
[spoiler=I, on the other hand, can't help but think about this.]
[youtube]2_vlkids6MU[/youtube][/spoiler]
That being said, in many ways, I'm glad I did it. I learned a lot about myself, decided to grow a spine, I'm still with "the other man," and I learned how not to end a relationship. Would I ever do it again? HELL NO.
RobMdza Wrote:I was more into the idea of ''cheating'' seen as freedom to experience with other people while being on a stable relationship.My younger brother's ex-girlfriend actually managed to convince him that this was a good idea. The result? She bangs some other guy while on vacation with her family, and guilt trips him into thinking that he's the pimento for getting mad at her because they agreed to an "open relationship." Yeah. No. Thank God my little brother walked away from that bitch STD-free.
I don't think it's a good idea if you're in a committed relationship. If you're just dating, then sure, date as many girls as you want, you're not attached to any of them. But if you say to someone, "I want to be with you, but I also want to meet other people to see if I want to be with them instead," well, who the hell would want to be your backup plan if things don't work out? It would seem that you're unsure of the relationship you're in currently, looking for an easy way out, or are in the relationship to have a sense of stability or security without actually dedicating yourself to someone.
If two people can agree on this arrangement and be okay with it, well, more power to them.
[spoiler=I, on the other hand, can't help but think about this.]
[youtube]2_vlkids6MU[/youtube][/spoiler]

