2009-10-16, 01:17 PM
Honestly you might want to get it done in a more formal setting. It doesn't have to be what other people want, but ideally something that has your whole family present and it's a celebration. Your wedding is one of the most important days in your life... do you really want to get it done quickie-style in a Las Vegas chapel? Also, from what I heard, family members can get pretty mad about weddings... like my brother and his wife were sending out thank-you cards for presents given at their wedding, one of the cards got lost in the mail, and the person thought she had been forgotten and got really mad. Your wedding is not only for you, it's also for your family... you should get them involved.