2009-10-01, 01:11 PM
Fiel Wrote:I just think it's a tad odd that you're considering loving her or going out with her but you can't open up to her in a time of need. She's asking for your help, man. Be heartfelt and connect with her on an intellectual level. Your own desire to not screw things up is actually pushing her away from you when she needs your attention. You got everything backwards dude. Don't even worry about the friend zone or going out with her - how is that even an issue when she's in pain? Use this time to open up to each other and get closer. Learn more about her.
I think it's more of the lines of, because he 'loves' her he wants help her. Hes not immediatly going for "LETS GO OUT" but I see where he's coming from. We can't really tell him to talk to her about it because she could be one of those types who likes to dominate the conversation and frankly just wants to rant. Does that neccessarily mean hes being used? Not in this instance because shes opening him up to her personal life, she trusts him to listen. I don't know your responses but I mean, I hope you are making it clear you're listening.